I dont know anymore..

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

What do yew do when all yew want is that one guy?
But yew know that he will never care for yew as much as yew do for him.
And yew know that...
He is never going to write poetry for me.
He is never going to tell me i am his world.
He is never going to hold me tight and tell me that he never wants to let go.
He is never going to care about me as much as i care for him.
I dont even know if he really loves me.
So what do yew do when yew cant get him out of yewr head?

[IAMWILL]

You, need to let go and move on.

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

But what of I can't?

[The Harlequin]

As hard and unhelpful as this sounds you need to find a way ~ and completely by yourself... Only you know how you truly feel, and so it is you who has to break away, and realise why this guy isn't so great, why he's human, his faults and failures, an telling yourself there are none only damages you further.

I was absolutely head-over-heels in love with this girl I know for 2 years, and she knew it: she played my heartstrings like a violin. It nearly destroyed me, I dunno if a similar thing has happened with you but if it has, you really have to break yourself off from it.

It will hurt.
You will probably cry for hours with the gut-wrentching pain that you'll have to endure in your stomache but once it is over ~ once you no longer feel that magnetism towards that person you realise...

You are free...

And that is something that can, and will, loosen the vice-like grip you feel on your chest everyday the longing is there, and you can move on.

No one here is going to tell you that it'll be easy or pleasent in any way ~ but good things can come from bad occurances.

Poetry can be born from pain...

I hope this helps you
(:^,

[rubidoux]

You just have to keep living your life one day at a time. Try to keep busy with a hobby, a job, after school activity, hanging with friends, whatever you like doing, so you're not just sitting around thinking about him all the time. It doesn't feel like it now, but you will get over it.

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

as easy as it all sounds.
its not.
and i dont want to get over him.
I want him soo bad..

[thedudeman]

i got the same shit for a girl
its hard shit, just cut him out of your life, and find your strength, its in there somewhere
your strong enough for that, ive gotten over addictions, heartbreaks, and mental disorders, if i can do that you should be able to do this, its a matter of having the drive to get over him, if you dont want to, then it will NEVER happen, and you will be destroyed

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

To be destroy everyday is easier then hurting myself to get over him.

[The Harlequin]

To be destroy everyday is easier then hurting myself to get over him.

Then this thread is pointless... If you want to be destroyed there is nothing more anyone can say, you've riddled your own demise ~ being determined to be ruined will hurt you and all around you.

If that is what you want why ask in the first place?
Sometimes you have to listen to what you don't want to hear, or you'll never be truly happy ~ when was the last time denial = happiness?

Take the advice that people give and move on, or leave yourself to crash and burn... It's completely your choice...

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

I dont want to let him go.
I want him more then ever.
I have never had him and i need to find away to win him.

[The Harlequin]

I dont want to let him go.
I want him more then ever.
I have never had him and i need to find away to win him.

Ahhh, so what you want is for us to tell you the impossible ~ if you absolutely know for certain he will never love you then there is NO WAY that will change. How do I know? Because I had to deal with this for 2 years ~ it didn't matter that I knew I would never get her, I still fooled myself and tried everything ~ I changed for the better - She didn't notice. I changed for the worse - She still ignored me...

These people will never see you as anything more than a pawn ~ no matter what you do - that's the way the waltz goes! Either you endure the pain and make yourself stronger or you slowly dismantle who you are in a flawed attempt to "make him see" and waste years you could spend with somebody else who makes you happy, not depressed and alone.

You can't make glasses for the blind...

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

He says he loves me.
But i dont know if its true.
I have trouble trusting ppl..

[IAMWILL]

Obviously, you don't want to let him go.

Sometimes, you have to do things in life you absolutely don't want to to live better. Life is so much easier when you don't have to worry, and you could make your life that much easier if you LET HIM GO. It doesn't matter if you don't want to, nobody wants to let something or someone they believe they love go, but sometimes YOU HAVE TO. End of story, PERIOD.

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

Yeah i have figured that out.

[IAMWILL]

Good, but then why haven't you shown it yet? In this thread at least. If you have figured that out you wouldn't need more than one reply to this thread.

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

Well i figured it out now.

[ILOVEYOU]

look there's something you should know, until if you keep saying "he's not going to.....", then he wont be what you want, so, keep saying "he is going to . . ", "i'm a beautiful girl, and he loves me back, but he doesnt know how to say it", "i will go up to him and ask a minute of his time, and then i will tell him how much he means to me, and he will feel me", "he do hold me tight, and kiss me and tell me that i'm all his reason for living". . its really this easy, you just need to believe in it. :) good luck my friend, and let me know how it goes

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

thank yew.
And i guess i should say that instead of always putting myself down.

[kyle95]

you grin and bear it. a tree gets rough bark and scars from growing. it would be ideal if he would only reciprocate. you sound like a wonderful girl and he should be so lucky to have someone so caring. on the bright side, if you do get his attention, blokes tend to fall harder in love, so don't write him off so fast, he could be a slow starter, be patient.

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

to be patient is hard.

[kyle95]

the alternative is much more painful. just give it a try.

[ILOVEYOU]

thank yew.
And i guess i should say that instead of always putting myself down.

yea, exactly. Good luck, :)

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

Yeah. Cuz i cant take much more pain..

[Holding On*]

Patience is a virtue. It is not that hard at all really. And I know this will sound rather bitchy, and your likely to flame me for it, but what is the point of writing yew and not you? It is the same amount of letters after all! Just a small pet peeve of mine, sorry!
Good luck solving your issue though, I believe everything happens for a reason though, nd to be hoest, you are 14. You have your life ahed of you. You are very unlikely to ctually marry and stay with someone that you date as a teenager, so just have fun!! If he doesn't want to get with you or whatever the case is,then just accept it and maybe find someone else but just enjoy yourself!!

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

hmmm your right.
and its just a habit to put yew instead of you

[kyle95]

Patience is a virtue. It is not that hard at all really. And I know this will sound rather bitchy, and your likely to flame me for it, but what is the point of writing yew and not you? It is the same amount of letters after all! Just a small pet peeve of mine, sorry!
Good luck solving your issue though, I believe everything happens for a reason though, nd to be hoest, you are 14. You have your life ahed of you. You are very unlikely to ctually marry and stay with someone that you date as a teenager, so just have fun!! If he doesn't want to get with you or whatever the case is,then just accept it and maybe find someone else but just enjoy yourself!!



good advice.

keep in mind, you're not alone either. you have friends here :)

[YourFriend]

But what of I can't?

You can and you must.

[Rogue27]

You won't succeed without having a little bit of patience. You keep outting yourself down so mabey that is what you really want, mabey you just want attention so you keep not listing to what everyone says. He really isn't worth it if it causes you this much pain and sadness. Move on there are tons of nice worthy guys out there.

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

Thank yew everyone for yewr advice.
And i keep thinking about it.
Yew guys have really kinda helped.

[ILOVEYOU]

yea, you're welcome, and post anything happened, :) Good Luck

[ashy-bear]

It is really hard. I am struggling with the same thing right now and it has taken me forever to try and get over him. But I have finally realised that now and I am just slowly going to move on and make myself get over him. I don't have to see him anymore which makes it a little easier.

[unspokensecrets]

I swear... your in the same situation as me hun.

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