I just need someone to talk to?

[Discomposure]

i'm 15 and i self harm, i have been S.H ing now for 7 months. I see my school nurse every week when i'm at school and she is reffering me to some hospital for mental illnesses im a bit worried about that, talking to a new person about stuff. Also, it's now the summer holidays and i don't see the nurse every week, it's been one week and i allready feel like i need to talk to her.
If anyone can just maybe i dunno speak to me, it would really help, thanks
xx
:what:

[Triceratops]

Hey, welcome to VT. :)

I know what it's like as I'm battling self-harm myself. I have been self-harming for 5 years now. I can quite honestly say I have put myself through a burning hell.

These experiences can be quite terrifying and weird at first, but once the first session is done it just gets so much better after that. Try to remember that they're not here to criticise or judge you, they're here to help and support you on your way towards recovery so try to take this new experience each step at a time.

You are more than welcome to talk to me whenever you like. Feel free to PM whenever you wish and I'll be more than happy to talk or help out. :)

Stay strong. <3

[kt2369]

if you need someone to talk to im here.
i know its hard ive been S.H for about 5 months

[Viral Death]

1st off welcome to Virtual Teen!
2nd why are you self harming?
3rd you can personal message me whenever you need.

[Beautiful Obsession]

hiya,, welcome to VT:D
i know its going to be hard as youu have had someone to talk to every week for the past how long?? what about talkin to your parents about how your feeeling..



anyway, i'll be happy to talk to you anytime if wether you just want to talk or need advice? just pm me :) x

[Project Delta]

Welcome to VT
Usually that means you have a problem, i.e self harm
many people here will try and usually succeed to help you. And a LOT of us have been through a lot. And collectively we have been through it all i think its safe to say. So if you have a problem someone here will know a solution. And most will try and help even if they dont know an answer. We are co-operation in a whole really.

Pm Me anytime ya want. I'm Aaron

[dstnyisurs]

Hi love. I'm Kyrra. (:
That's very good you're getting some help. It may be intimidating, but it's really important that you tell them as much as you can, and be truthful because it can be very imperitive in your recovery. Self-harm is a sticky thing, and it's never easy to stop, but it's possible.
Me personally, I've been self harming for two or three years. It's a nasty business.
You can talk to me anytime. Yahoo, msn, aim, PM; It's all good. (: Hope you're feeling better, love.

[PoisonedRazorBlades]

Hey, welcome to VT, such a great place it is xD
I know how you feel with the SI. I've been doing it for about 4 years now... I know how tough it feels, as do many others on the site.
Feel free to contact me and I'll try to help you out with advice or just someone who will listen.

[Discomposure]

Thanks for all your comments guys, it really lets me know i'm not alone and there are people out there willing to help me. :) x

[Sapphire]

There are lots of friendly and helpful people here willing to lend a virtual shoulder to cry on and some advice.

I can really empathise with you. I've self harmed a lot in the past and was nearly committed because no one felt able to protect me from myself. However, I have come out of the other end and only really experience urges to do it when I'm really low. The rest of the time I'm free from it.

You can pm me to talk or not - it's up to you.
Whatever you do, take comfort in the knowledge that cooperating and being honest with those who are trying to help you means that you will be able to beat the self harm and be happy again :sun:

[Reality]

i'm 15 and i self harm, i have been S.H ing now for 7 months. I see my school nurse every week when i'm at school and she is reffering me to some hospital for mental illnesses im a bit worried about that, talking to a new person about stuff. Also, it's now the summer holidays and i don't see the nurse every week, it's been one week and i allready feel like i need to talk to her.
If anyone can just maybe i dunno speak to me, it would really help, thanks
xx
:what:
You could try to help yourself, a bit, when you don't have anyone around.

Ask yourself this.... "what does self-harm do to help me exactly?" Look on your past scars and cuts and ask yourself if they've made you any better. Somehow, I doubt it.

Try.. alternatives to self-harm, if you still feel the need to punish yourself, carry around an elastic band for when you get angry.

I, too used to cut myself, it's why I joined this forum, but the fact I got bad scars make me regret it loads.

[blondiiee_xo]

Hey well I'm pretty new to this forum, but I am really open for people to rant or chat to me, as I like to help people feel happier and everything. So if you ever need to talk just ask, I'm more than happy to listen (:

[Secret_Keiko]

Hi there <3
I myself am battling self harm, and I know how hard it is.
If you want to talk, add my msn <3
[please don't post your email address, use the space allocated on your profile - Lovehatetragedy
It's good because maybe we can help eachother :)

[starrburst]

Anyone who wants help, advice, a good chat or just some comforting...you know just to send me a message, I won't bite....xD

I am 13 and have SHed for about a year, I know what it's like.


I have some useful websites for this too, but not many.

Hope your alright x

[Harley Quinn]

This thread in nearly a year old, please look at the last post before posting :locked: