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the_conquerer
July 26th, 2009, 07:51 AM
im 15 and im kinda confused cos i like looking at girls and get boners over them etc but when im looking at them naked (in porn) im really turned off and i find naked men a real turn on even tho it feels kinda wrong and i fantasise over giving guys anal and b'js and i feel i should be turned on by girls. HELP !!

Donkey
July 26th, 2009, 08:01 AM
Lots of straight or bi guys who prefer women to men in general prefer gay porn. It's normal to have feelings towards your own gender like this during puberty and it's caused by hormones. They can make you think you're gay even if you're not. I wouldn't worry about this, and decide on your sexuality when you're done with puberty (usually in your early 20s)

YourFriend
July 26th, 2009, 08:20 AM
Don't worry it's only hormones, you can't fight them and why would you want to? If gay porn gives you more satisfaction, then watch gay porn.

pkid
July 26th, 2009, 04:09 PM
i have the exact same problem! im so scared....and i think im bi..but i really am trying to be str8

RobbieDixon
July 26th, 2009, 04:10 PM
Lots of straight or bi guys who prefer women to men in general prefer gay porn. It's normal to have feelings towards your own gender like this during puberty and it's caused by hormones. They can make you think you're gay even if you're not. I wouldn't worry about this, and decide on your sexuality when you're done with puberty (usually in your early 20s)

Yeah it happens alot..

kdddd
July 26th, 2009, 06:41 PM
yeah many people who are str8 like gay porn and stuff its okay man

kyle95
July 27th, 2009, 01:44 AM
i think you have two things going on here mate. first, you're excited when you see naked girls. However when they're acting as in porn, their bodies do nothing for you. That's understandable. second, you're reacting and fantasising over naked blokes in porn. i'm going to assume you don't in real life, just porn. be that as it may, it appears you may also be interested in blokes. regardless, don't go psycho and start to think there's something wrong with you, there isn't mate. you have a preference, period. it's not for anyone to judge.

JackOfClubs
July 27th, 2009, 05:08 AM
Theres nothing wrong with you, its just hormones. Many straight guys prefer gay porn. If you have emotional feelings toward girls but not guys then you're not gay.

Skeln
July 27th, 2009, 10:38 AM
Well ya it's caused by hormones and we all have to go through with it so you really don't have anything to worry about. Just as well, if you like relationships with girls then just keep that up for now until you're older and don't have raging hormones, then it should be easier to decide your sexuality. That'll be in about your early 20s

JimSauce
July 27th, 2009, 11:42 AM
It's normal to find girls sexier with clothes on than naked. At least, for a while and then your mindset will probably change.

Leprachaun
July 27th, 2009, 11:44 AM
it's ok your normal, lots of boy's are like this

Hughesy
July 27th, 2009, 12:40 PM
I thought I was bi from the age of 14 until 16, then it just kinda snapped one day like 'Wait, what? No..' The first time I saw a vagina I freaked out, it looked like an alien, I was expecting just a clean slit, one hole get in get out all good, hell I still think they're a bit gross lookin, but the moral of the story is, I went through what you went through, I'm now straight as a fibre optic cable. I went through the faze, and now the thought of myself in homoerotic situations is strongly repelling, I have nothing against gay guys, but my mindset has changed A LOT.

nick
July 27th, 2009, 12:59 PM
I'm now straight as a fibre optic cable.
Arent they bendy?

Anyway, as I've said elsewhere recently, the girls in porn look absolutely nothing like girls in the real world, in my experience anyway. They all look absolutely revolting to me, like some kind of artificial sex dolls. I wouldn't worry too much about it.

Hughesy
July 27th, 2009, 01:06 PM
Arent they bendy?

Anyway, as I've said elsewhere recently, the girls in porn look absolutely nothing like girls in the real world, in my experience anyway. They all look absolutely revolting to me, like some kind of artificial sex dolls. I wouldn't worry too much about it.

Fibre Optic? The new internet cables? They send packets through streams of light, if they're slightly bent or misshaped the data can't travel properly.

cole g
August 3rd, 2009, 12:10 PM
what ever gets u goin roll whith it.

Giles
August 3rd, 2009, 12:28 PM
http://img233.imageshack.us/img233/1916/congratsurnormal.png

Ita just hormones... You might be gay, you might be bi, or you might be straight. At this age it is next to impossible to know what your sexuality is, because lotts of your feelings and actions are controlled/influenced by your raging hormones.