Question

[random_guy]

Would it be wrong to j/o with my younger 2nd cousin?

[Bougainvillea]

I don't think it's a good idea. Because it's family we're dealing with. And his age plays into it, too.

[JackOfClubs]

I wouldn't do it. He is family and if that developed into something else, it could be considered incest, and thats illegal. And he is younger. Definite no-no from me.

[kyle95]

mate, young people are very vulnerable and impressionable. that sort of behaviour would be viewed as nothing short of predatory. there are some ethical and moral lines you don't cross, this is one of them. my advice: don't do it

[random_guy]

I dont mean that young. Only 2 years in the difference. But ya, i was thinking against it, and just wanted to see what others had to say. Thanks you guys :)

[LUCKY555]

it is all about opinion i wouldnt do it with him if he is less than 12 years old...but i would do it if he is older....i dont think it matters if it is family you are both boys and it is not like you are having sex so no i say its ok

[vito22andolini]

well , i never done anything close to that , not even jacked off near a boy but i guess that if you both agree to do it and are comfortable to do it , theres no problem

[Loislane]

Though I wouldn't recommend it, as it can cause tension between you both, how old are you both?
If you're 18, and he is 16, then i'd say MAYBE go for it, aslong as you really think it through and are both sure. If he is under 14, I would not recommend it at all.

[nick]

I think the first few answers on here are rather reactionary, everyone treating you like a pedo. You've clarified that he's only 2 years younger, so providing he's a reasonable age, say about 13, I think thats OK.

Second cousin isnt that close, I wouldnt really call that incest especially if you're just j/o together.

[tbboltz92]

I would vote no on that one dude sry

[YourFriend]

Doing it with family members is just wrong and it can hurt you.

[Appleton]

I think I'm with Nick on this one. I've done it with two of my cousins. One is older and the other is about my age. I guess I'm not seeing the big deal here. Both of them wanted to do it just as much as I did and it was fun and there's not tension at all. If he wants to do it and you're not taking advantage of him or him of you, I think it's ok.

[Giles]

well considering i have like 20 2nd cousins... most of whom i have great relationhips with and i dont treat them like family. I would do it.
However, if you have any doubt about whether this is right... completley disregarding al other advice given. I suggest you do what you think is best, If you think that you can ask him (and maybe get turned down) but still remain friends... then i'd say try it.

[The Harlequin]

No ~ no ~ no ~ NO!
Seriously, if he is young he could easily agree to it at the time and then resent you for it later ~ plus he's FAMILY! Even if it isn't immediate family it still sounds pretty bad, and unlike friends, family stick around ~ you can't choose family, they'll remember something like this if it got out ~ and it is so not worth that risk...

Just find a curious mate of yours and j/o, that's much less complicated than this (granted, it still comes with it's problems but NOTHING on the scale of this...)

[Donkey]

No, it will probably create awkwardness with the two of you. Don't masturbate with family members. It's immoral.

[Giles]

No ~ no ~ no ~ NO!
Seriously, if he is young he could easily agree to it at the time and then resent you for it later ~ plus he's FAMILY! Even if it isn't immediate family it still sounds pretty bad, and unlike friends, family stick around ~ you can't choose family, they'll remember something like this if it got out ~ and it is so not worth that risk...

Just find a curious mate of yours and j/o, that's much less complicated than this (granted, it still comes with it's problems but NOTHING on the scale of this...)

No, it will probably create awkwardness with the two of you. Don't masturbate with family members. It's immoral.

Correction: Don't masturbate with immediate family members with the knowledge of the rest of the family... and make sure that the person in question is perfectly ok with the arrangement.

[The Harlequin]

Correction: Don't masturbate with immediate family members with the knowledge of the rest of the family... and make sure that the person in question is perfectly ok with the arrangement.

Look, when I was much younger a friend of mine told me he was gay and therefore we did stuff. At the time I was okay with it but afterwards whenever I had lustful thoughts about guys I blamed him, and hated him for introducing me to it,

It was damn hard to stop blaming him, it was just easier, and whilst I deep down knew that I liked it a lot I was still very bitter and negative towards him, personally I think if you can avoid making somebody feel that way about you, you should ~ resentment is NOT healthy...