a lot of change in 2 days

[schmitty09]

mods:please move if this is in the wrong section

anyways over the past few days my realtionship with my best friend has changed..alot....
1st she tells me that shes moving in december to charleston,sc...10 hours to the south
2nd she tells me that im the only friend she has
3rd she tells me im the only reason she doesnt want to move
4th she wants to kiss me to pay off a previous debt
5th she didnt say directly but from what i can translate she tols me that she loves me and wants to be in a more serious realtionship with me

shes my best friend and im going to miss her a lot, and i think i have feeling for her too

any ideas,advice,realtions????

[Aves]

If you have feelings, then go for a relationship. Just don't make it so you guys aren't friends afterwards.

[kyle95]

it's the anticipation of separation that sometimes makes a person go for a quick draw. be realistic mate, 10 hours away, a new beginning, new friends, new relationships, etc., you get the picture. if there's something truly there, i see no reason why you can't stay friends and still be in touch on yahoo live. if i'm not wrong, don't you blokes go for spring break to the south, south carolina is pertty south to me, so use that opportunity to visit with her. One thing mate: you don't have a hold over her. be fair and kind and above all be her friend. she may even confide in you about a love interest, grin and bear it because sooner or later, she may realise you're the right one, if you're so inclined

[schmitty09]

^^ good advice thanks man.:cool:

[kyle95]

^^ good advice thanks man.:cool:

you're welcome mate

[Aves]

Go with kyle's advice, it is smarter and better