rushing?

[lxl]

so i kinda got to know this one guy not awhile ago... it was the first time that i ever tried to initiate a relationship cuz theres absolutely no bi/gay guys at my school...
so anyways i got his number and txt'd and stuff... but i dunno if i was being too obsessive or not cuz i askd when we should meet next time he was always busy... so every so often (like once or twice a week) i asked when he'll be available... so lately he said he's going thru a phase where he's more attracted to girls... im not sure if he was being honest or just making an excuse but anyways i dont know if i was being too obsessive and drove him away????
i dunno!! it's my first time

[kyle95]

it could be a lot of things mate. perhaps it was pressure, perhaps the attraction isn't there, maybe there's someone else, or indeed he's moved on. whatever it may be, don't torment yourself over something that didn't happen, just move on and you'll find the right person

[Aves]

Like kyle said, there is a lot of possibilities, so it's really hard to say.

[Atonement]

Well, if its true, chances are you will see this man with a girl soon. If not, well, he's simply not into you and you should back off if not give up. Relationships, let alone non-heterosexual relationships are hard for teens. So, back off, keep an eye out, if he simply moves onto a man, just take the best and leave the rest and move on.

[kyle95]

there's got to be places where you can meet new people. don't be too quick to judge who's gay and who isn't, actually don't even judge, the right person may closer than you think. good luck mate

[lxl]

thanks guys :) i guess i was too caught up with possibly having my first relationship i got worked up... there are plenty of more chances in the future soooo :3

[rubidoux]

I actually don't think it's anything you did necessarily, I'm thinking that he just wasn't feeling it. You can't really force those kinds of feelings to happen, it just kind of either happens or it doesn't. I'm sure you'll bounce back easily enough since you don't seem too torn down about it.