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[Waiting]

my girlfriend cant deal with an emotional wreck for a boyfriend.
i'm waiting for the inevitable.
im useless in relationships.
i dont know how ive had two thats lasted over two years.

[kyle95]

if two people agree to be in a relationship, then they agree to work things out. some of these things may not be so pleasant. if you have emotional issues, and she's truly your gf, then she would stand by you. it's wrong to use the same yardstick on different people. what has taken place in the past should have no bearing on the current relationship mate

[Aves]

Kyle beat's me to these all the time, couldn't agree more. If you want to break up, or when, let her down easy. Hopefully she won't be hurt so bad.

[Sapphire]

You can't be useless at relationships and have had two that lasted two years...Just putting that out there.

[kyle95]

Kyle beat's me to these all the time, couldn't agree more. If you want to break up, or when, let her down easy. Hopefully she won't be hurt so bad.

trauma, at least we see eye to eye mate :)

[Aves]

trauma, at least we see eye to eye mate :)

Yep, you beat me to every post, it's aggravating, cuz i don't like repeating :D

[rubidoux]

If that's how you feel, then work on yourself before persuing another relationship. You can't expect someone else to love you until you learn to love yourself. It's cliche but it's true.

Also, understand that being in any kind of relationship, even a friendship, with someone who rarely has anything positive to say about anything is exhausting for anyone. I'm not saying that's you, but it's something you may want to be more aware of just in case. If all you ever talk about is your problems, how hopeless you/your life is, etc. rather than coming up with ways to make it better, nobody's going to stick around for that for very long. I've had a lot of friends who I finally stopped talking to completely because I couldn't take all the negative talk. People have their own problems, and while a friend should be supportive of yours, there should be more to a friendship or a relationship than that.

[Waiting]

If all you ever talk about is your problems, how hopeless you/your life is, etc. rather than coming up with ways to make it better, nobody's going to stick around for that for very long. .

you couldn't be more mistaken.
and thats a very judgemental thing to say off of four lines.
and an even more stupid thing to say seeing as you're on a mental health forum.

[Sapphire]

Ok, so she incorrectly jumped to a conclusion about you. It's not good but it's excusable I think.

I just don't see how what she said was stupid :neutral:
In fact I agree wholeheartedly with what she was saying about relationships and the need for a balance between seeking support and having a good time otherwise they fall apart.

[Waiting]

nevermind. sorry, im overtired and a bit touchy today, i do apologise.
can a mod lock this please.
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