I hate my life!!!

[ShinigamiMaiden]

why do i have to put up with the over protecting dad!?!?!? WHY ME!??! do i really deserve the shittest life EVER!!??? he treats me like kid. and fucking HATE him for it. i wish he would just let me do what i want! all my friends are in a bad mood with me for not showing up with them today and now all my dad has to say is your too young WTF. i'm old enough to walk 10 minutes up the fucking road!!!??? any NORMAL parent would let somebody. GRR AND HE WONDERS WHY I FREAKEN HATE HIM!!! ahhhh i'm going freaking INSANE! and have nowhere else to live!!!! my mom won't want me at her house so looks like i'm stuck fucking here. he thinks i'm 5 i dont know what to say to him anymore! 2 years and i've left fucking school for fuck sake! ahhrghhh. HE is the reason that i tried to kill myself last night :mad::mad::mad:

[Project Delta]

Okay Well it seems like your dad is kinda a prick, but i doubt you have the shittest life ever. There is always someone worse off than you. MAybe he doesnt want something bad to happen to you. But i understand what it feels like as it is what has happened many times before but the reason was not because i'm too young, its just simply they cant trust me because of my behaviour without my medication (for ADHD), to be honest it isnt really a reason to kill yourself. And i'm glad it did not work because you are a valuable member on VT.

just try and explain to him that you want more freedom, because its eating you up inside? Be polite about it and dont yell or scream, because then you are nicer and they respond in a similar way and are more likely to allow you the privaledge, even though it should already be granted.

[ShinigamiMaiden]

i will try and talk with him after monday cause on monday i'm getting my lip pierced with my mum, (dads totally agaist it) and he told me today if i piss him off one more time i wont be able to. i'll talk to him on tuesday even though we have already had that kind of conversation many times and he just says a load of crap and shouts at me to fuck off :/ if i get my older sister she might help me...but really it's making me want to die! it's that bad.

[Project Delta]

its Sad to hear that you want to die, i know how it feels i really do. A few days a go i was on the bus home and saw flowers at the side of the road and i instananeously thought "I wish that was me"

Its one of the worst feelings myou can get.
Btw nice going on the lip piercing can we expect a picture on vt?

As for the talk just stay calm in it, when he tells you to fuck off dont shout back, just point out to him that he is being unreasonable and unfair.

[dstnyisurs]

Yes, that's not how a father should act.
Make sure you tell him that his behavior can reflect on who you become as an adult, and you are sure he doesn't want you telling your children to fuck off and not allowing them to speak up and talk maturly with you. He needs to realize that his behavior as an adult and parent is not acceptable and for him to do that you need to show him that you can be much more mature then him and not freak out, just tell him that you find his behaviour silly. Once he realizes this you can talk with him about your responsibillities and that you feel you should be granted more of them. Ask him what you need to do exactly that is reasonable that would get him to trust you to make some of your own decisions.
Hope it goes well. (:

[ShinigamiMaiden]

urr yeah picture will be up obviously. (: but yeah today he told me yh i know i'm being over protective and i know i should have let u gone but i just dont want u to and i yelled well ur making me misarible and he was just acting all nice to me and i was just ignoring him. i think he's starting to get the message. for the fact that he didnt even give me a reason why i couldnt go.

[Project Delta]

Well at least he is starting to see the message and he is starting to make his way towards the right choice. I guess. Cant wait to see the picture, i want to get a lip piercing but my mum wont let me ... and my dad is just like *shakes head* xD

[kyle95]

it's all about concessions one step a time. dad's are like that with daughters. especially because he's that controlling, don't do anything to make yourself even more miserable. come on, we all know a way around control freaks. he'll get the message that you're no longer his little girl. keep in mind that you don't want the alternative, running way and being at the mercy of predators and losers. so don't attach too much significance to each incident as if it's a life threatening one. put things into perspective and measure your reaction accordingly. that's the language adults understand and you will see how fast his attitude changes, but you must make the change in yourself first. so calm down, quit blowing up at the slightest thing, prioritise what's really worth arguing over and chose your words carefully.

[Loser-LUCY]

gaa my dad is also over protective and also a main reason of my self harming. stresses me out so much.

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