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CC_15
March 8th, 2006, 11:32 PM
hey everyone......I've never done this before but none of my friends have any answers so I thought someone from here couldhelp me out......... Here's the deal:

This girl(Jessie) from another town likes me, I went to the town and talked to her but I'm wasn't really interested in her but she had a friend (Leah) with her who was very pretty, really funny, I mean EVERYTHING I look for in a girl accept I barely even knew her name. Over the next week things went on and talked to a friend of Leah's and I told her how I was interested in her and she said she talk to her. She tells me the next day that Leah thinks I'm cute and that I'm the kinda guy she'd date. But she can't because it would ruin her and Jessie's friendship. I really respect her thoughts on it and i understand, but I can not stop thinking about Leah. Jessie has never even told me that she likes me, only her friends have. Is it right that we like each other but can't date because of her friend. Shouldn't Jessie be happy if Leah and I are Happy? Any help would be appreciated..

krzwis
March 9th, 2006, 02:00 AM
Jessie is jellous

you said she likes you....so you visit HER

you break her heart by paying attention to SOMEONE ELSE

you slipped...and i can see why she'd be angry with you


however....your not evil, you scratched her heart, but it ain't serious. Your good, and she's probably crying to sleep some of the time. She really liked you, ya know...but thats life i guess

CC_15
March 9th, 2006, 05:02 PM
but Jessie knows nothing about Leah and I. She doesn't know that I know she likes me and she has absolutely know clue about Leah and I liking each other. Should I tell her about either?

WelshLad
March 9th, 2006, 06:27 PM
It depends on the person entirely. What kind of person is Jessie? Kind? Considerate? In theory, yes she should be happy for you but she'd be hurting deep down even though she might not show it for your sake.

I say explain your situation to Jessie. Tell her you don't want anything to go further with Leah unless she's ok with it. There's been one or two situations like this whcih i've been in but kept my feelings to myself rather than tellin the girl. I wish I hadn't now so don't make the same mistakes i did.

krzwis
March 9th, 2006, 08:25 PM
girls tend to know something's up even if you didn't tell them

they can read body language alot easier

fdsgfg55465
March 15th, 2006, 11:19 PM
well it seems shes jealous if she was a real friend she would be happy for you two