anal worries

[zebrainatree]

On sat me and my friend are going to have sex, we have done it before but this time we both want to try anal.
But im worried about if anything embarrassing is going to happen. obviously he will wear a condom but when we pulls it out im worried there might be like; some waste or something on it. It an embarrassing topic but this is where i can ask for advice without being upfront!
Thank you

[Ryandel]

Well let's begin with, it's good that you and your partner are doing this protected. Kudos for you and him.

As for your question, there's quite a few options you have for advice and upon what you can do.

Option 1
If your community has a Peer support centre you may go there and ask for advice on how you can do anal intercourse much less worry-full

Option 2
Some general stores sell do-it-yourself enema kits. This is a good method to clear out your anal opening and deeper within. There's different methods of this, such as hose, pills, liquid products just to name a few. Best to see what you're most comfortable with.

Option 3
Sure it may be embarrassing , but also best to talk to your partner about it. You two can also discuss on what'll happen and what you can do.

Option 4
Stop, think about it and see if you're really ready for this. If you have doubts also talk about them with your partner.


Those are just a few options. Also note, that you may hear or read about other peoples experiences on anal sex, but on most cases everyone's experiences on anal intercourse differs from each other. Glad that this question was asked, seeing as this one is quite taboo in most cases. Hope things work out for you and your partner and have fun

-Alexander

[zebrainatree]

Well let's begin with, it's good that you and your partner are doing this protected. Kudos for you and him.

As for your question, there's quite a few options you have for advice and upon what you can do.

Option 1
If your community has a Peer support centre you may go there and ask for advice on how you can do anal intercourse much less worry-full

Option 2
Some general stores sell do-it-yourself enema kits. This is a good method to clear out your anal opening and deeper within. There's different methods of this, such as hose, pills, liquid products just to name a few. Best to see what you're most comfortable with.

Option 3
Sure it may be embarrassing , but also best to talk to your partner about it. You two can also discuss on what'll happen and what you can do.

Option 4
Stop, think about it and see if you're really ready for this. If you have doubts also talk about them with your partner.


Those are just a few options. Also note, that you may hear or read about other peoples experiences on anal sex, but on most cases everyone's experiences on anal intercourse differs from each other. Glad that this question was asked, seeing as this one is quite taboo in most cases. Hope things work out for you and your partner and have fun

-Alexander

Thank you veyr much.

[kdddd]

yeah there is nothing for me to say because Ryandel said it all that was a great answer

[nick]

Its generally much cleaner in there than you would expect. If you feel you might need to take a dump do that first and get it out of the way. If its a bad tummy day, dont go there, wait for another time.

If its going to really freak you out if there's a little bit of dirt on a condom you might not be ready for doing this.

[YourFriend]

Its generally much cleaner in there than you would expect. If you feel you might need to take a dump do that first and get it out of the way. If its a bad tummy day, dont go there, wait for another time.

If its going to really freak you out if there's a little bit of dirt on a condom you might not be ready for doing this.

Agreed, it's clean there, and make sure you clean it when you're taking a shower.

[Θάνατος]

I agree with all of the posts here.

You can finger yourself to get your yourself clean.

It is best to do this while you are in the shower so you can make sure you hands and everything else are clean.

[Skeln]

Yeah when I tried anal everything was clean. Just make sure to use the rest room before if you feel that you might need to go later on. Other than that Idon't really see a need to worry.

[zebrainatree]

Thank's everyone

[Gumleaf]

yeah there is nothing for me to say because Ryandel said it all that was a great answer

if you have nothing to add to an answer, then don't post.

[Ryandel]

Just an addition. On sokme not often cases, when people fingered the pieces in their anal crevices. They forget to check their nails. And that might be a tad uncomfortable.Checking nails being that annoying hang nail or pointy edge.