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hockey_guy
July 23rd, 2009, 04:27 AM
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What if you are gay or bi and like the person and wants to give him a bj even though this guy is straight. do u think he will freak out if I told him I was bi?
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JackOfClubs
July 23rd, 2009, 07:14 AM
Well if he is really a good friend, he shouldn't freak out. But I can't tell you what he'll say about the BJ, that depends on the person.
JimSauce
July 23rd, 2009, 08:59 AM
It really depends on the person... In my co-ed PE class, some guys will shout "homo!" if their friend takes his shirt off, just because there are other guys around. On the other hand some friends can jack each other off without questioning their sexuality.
Anyway most guys would accept a bi friend, but to offer him a BJ is pushing it a little too far.
orangecounty
July 23rd, 2009, 09:54 AM
Well to start with offering a BJ might be a little...FREAKY!!!! You should find out if he is interested first and ask him if he has jacked off with a friend or would want to, etc...you know, baby steps. Starting out with "Hi, I am bi and I want to give you a BJ" would creep most guys out...even the most loyal of friends.
geniusrocksoutloud
July 23rd, 2009, 02:52 PM
bring it up in topic, but if they are uncomfortable then the deal is off... dont ruin your relationship with a good friend.
Θάνατος
July 23rd, 2009, 03:42 PM
Most friends if they are true friends will accept you for who you are.
The blow job thing is a very touchy subject. You should be very careful here as this could cause your friend to terminate your friendship.
Just approach with extreme caution and ask questions about sex and masturbation first.
To be honest a lot of straight guys are going to let your give them a blow job you just have to approach that person in the right way.
YourFriend
July 23rd, 2009, 03:47 PM
Most of my friends would freak out. Depends on the society you live in.
Mr. Awesome
July 23rd, 2009, 05:15 PM
I agree with the above answers. You should bring it up in a way that you do not pressure your friend as doing so could lead to the breakdown of your friendship. And remember if he says no it means no
MykeSoBe
July 23rd, 2009, 07:45 PM
You should try and pick up more information that may determine your friend's sexuality, that will help a lot. You should ask if he's ever watched straight porn and get aroused by it. I guess it's just experimentation, so it's fine. But if you're insecure, just wait a bit longer until you can find out more about your friend and his preferences.
rubidoux
July 23rd, 2009, 08:19 PM
I'd be completely grossed out if my friend was bi and suggested that I do anything sexual with her. I think if you want him to respect your sexuality, you should respect his as well and keep the BJs between you and your gay/bi friends.
Aves
July 23rd, 2009, 08:25 PM
I'd be completely grossed out if my friend was bi and suggested that I do anything sexual with her. I think if you want him to respect your sexuality, you should respect his as well and keep the BJs between you and your gay/bi friends.
I agree with her, I would just not give him a bj, that's too weird, since he's straight.
bowlheadhere
July 24th, 2009, 02:51 AM
If your friend is a true friend, then it shouldnt matter! If your friend stops being your friend simply because you told him you were bi, when the whole time you were friends (or most of it, you were bi), then one can not help but ask the question whether they are a true friend or not. Personally, I like and enjoy having gay/bi friends (i am straight) because i know they will always be their for me, accept me for who i am, and give me good advice (well, from my friends who are gay/bi). Not quite sure why i added that in there, but i dont really know, i feel comfortable around gay/bi people.
If i were you, i would personally not go as far as telling him that you want to blow him, but if you want, try to j/o and see where it goes from there. You shouldnt push your friend to do anything they dont want to.
hope this helps.
Fourth Dimension
August 13th, 2009, 02:58 AM
well when i told my friends they were ok with me being bi
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