Damn

[Cable]

Shit, I know that my crush doesnt like me more than a friend and likely never will, and I've spent so much time thinking about her that I've forgotten about making and keeping all my other friends. I realize that it's not that important and that I hinder myself by devoting myself to something that I likely wont get anything out of.

So I say, fuck crushes, get on with real life. Hang out with friends, devote more time to my hobbies and fun stuff instead of worrying about some fucking girl. Have some, dont stress out, and enjoy every moment of single life. No one to worry about pleasing but yourself.

Thats it.

[krzwis]

i can't agree more

dude....walking that "thin line" of dating sucks big major balls. its much easier just to live a fun life...and if you live a life of fun and what you want in life, then those girls who you meet will share your philosophy and become really good friends (or more)

my way of looking at it: never look for girls...they'll come to you almost by fate

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

all this dating at such early ages is so overrated. once you get into college, there are so many different people that you can practically always find somebody who you really like and somebody who likes you back the same way. im not gonna go out with somebody just so i can say ive gone out with some1, cus that dont make you cooler/more masculine in my book at least

[Glasgow]

all this dating at such early ages is so overrated. once you get into college, there are so many different people that you can practically always find somebody who you really like and somebody who likes you back the same way. im not gonna go out with somebody just so i can say ive gone out with some1, cus that dont make you cooler/more masculine in my book at least

So true, thats why I don't go out with any random girl, because I want my first girlfriend to mean something, not just to brag about. That's why Im waiting until my love likes me again. Which im working on right now.

So dude, ya you're story has sort of inspired me to stay away from all those little girls who want to be adults, and live your own life. Girls ruin your life!

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

i woudlnt say they ruin my life, but they sure do make things hectic as in its not their fault at all but all this dating at starting at like 11 makes social life for those who want their relation to mean something to seem "different" in that they dont have girlfriends. which is ofcourse one of the stupidest things ever O_o

[Cable]

Yeah mostly in Freshman and Sophomore year its a lust type thing, most poeple get in super touchy feely relationships that mean nothing.

I figure wait until a relantionship means something more than bragging rights and "benefits".

[ScotsGirl]

...Girls ruin your life!

Dont judge us all based on a few apples ;)

Seriously though, things happen in relationships that have nothing to do with gender, its to do with the people that are in the relationship.

Anyway, goodluck with things Cable! It sounds like you have a positive outlook, I hope it continues and I hope everything works out for you! :D

:D
xxx

[fdsgfg55465]

i can't agree more

[wadeexpo]

lol a bit late but krz is so true
ive spent my life since 4th grade crushing on girls and i nvr was able to get a gf.. up until about 2 months ago i was crushing on a girl named kelley and her best friend allison liked me.. so i was 'oh well itll make her happy if i g/o w/ her' so i did. and i love her so much i cant think about if i hadnt said 'ill g/o w/ you'
magic happens my friends and dont forget it