I don't know what to do!

[YourFriend]

My uncle and another relative have both hanged themselves, my mum almost died in a car crush, my folks found out i am gay, they also think i am chatting with a pedophile. And all of this happened in 2 days! I really don't know what to do, i feel like i just wanna end my life. I am so depressed now. Please help. :(

[ylllek nivyer]

aw, honey. don't talk like that. it'll be okay. these must be really rough times for you, i can't imagine. i'm really sorry for you loss. just gotta keep on tryin. don't give up. when you make it past this patch in life you'll just be stronger than ever. everythin will be okay in the end. you can talk to me anytime :) i'm on here alot.

[Triceratops]

I'm so sorry you have experienced such traumas, this must've been difficult.

First of all, try to remember your relatives are in a peaceful, resting place right now. I know it's not easy to bring yourself to this state of mind. It's natural to grieve over the loved ones we have lost, but they are safe now and are watching over and protecting us.

Try to outweigh the positives with the negative, your mum survived the car crash, which is so fortunate and relieving, she is still with you as we speak.

Is there any way you can convince or prove your parents that you aren't talking to a paedophile? If you swear down that you are having no such contact with them, then try pulling them aside and discuss the matter with them.

I don't want you to feel as if you have to end your life because there is always a solution to each problem, no matter how long or how hard we have to work to solve it.

If you ever need someone to talk to, or for some help, support or guidance feel free to PM me whenever you wish. :)

[YourFriend]

I DON'T intend to end my life, i will NEVER do it, i have swore i won't, i just feel like i want to do it. I tried to talk to my parents about that pedophile but they don't believe me, but that isn't important anymore. The main problem is that they know i'm gay, this might sound really selfish, but i don't even think about those dead relatives, i have allot of things on my hands now and i don't have any time to think about my relatives. The society i live in hates gays, i would probebly be in a hospital right now if any friends of mine found out now. So i really hope my parents will keep it to themselves (i am pretty sure they will). My folks are really religious and they are probably looking down on me right now. These are the worst 2 days of my life.

Thanks for the help.

[The Joker]

I'm sorry, I hope your parents can get over their dislike for gays to love you.

[Sapphire]

Let me get this straight.
Out of all of what's gone on the thing troubling you most is your parents not approving of your sexuality?

I know what it's like to have parents disapproving of your sexuality. I know that it can be very difficult.
But losing two relatives and nearly losing your mum in the space of two days is worse than that.
And bloody hell, imagine how your mum is feeling - she nearly died! On top of that she's got to come to terms with the loss of two relatives and the fact that you're gay (which is challenging for many parents on a good day)

[YourFriend]

Well, then call me selfish. I don't care about those 2 relatives, one of them i never saw, other i saw 5 years ago, i had no relationship with them. It just stroke me that they hanged themselves. And I'm grateful my mum didn't die. But them knowing i'm gay will totally change my life. I know I'm a selfish bastard.

[The Joker]

No, it's OK to think about yourself in this kind of situation.

[Sapphire]

No, it's OK to think about yourself in this kind of situation.
Yes, but this situation demands at least some thought and consideration for the people around him!

[YourFriend]

No1 said i didn't think about what happened. and in my last post i explained everything.

[Sapphire]

That post centers around you justifying your nonchalant attitude towards the deaths of two of your relatives, saying you're grateful your mum is around and admitting that you are selfish. Nothing there (or in the rest of this thread) to indicate that you are even thinking about what your parents must be feeling about any of this.

[YourFriend]

Well that's because i don't know what they feel about this, only thing i know is that my parents also didn't have any relationship with those 2 relatives. Perhaps i shouldn't have made this thread because it seems like you're attacking me, or is it just my imagination?

[Sapphire]

I'm just wondering why you've created a thread listing things that aren't affecting you and how you can be so self centered.

[nick]

Sorry to hear all that Filip, I know from what you've said before what it could mean to be outed in your society and under those circumstances I'm not surprised that that is such a big concern for you.

You know where to find me if you want to talk about it.

[YourFriend]

Carole, you don't understand. My parents knowing I'm gay affects me more than you think.

[BuryYourFlame]

The attacks must stop. Although you might have valid points, there are better and less hurtful ways to voice them.

~Jetfire

[Sapphire]

Carole, you don't understand. My parents knowing I'm gay affects me more than you think.
I wasn't talking about that one.

[1_21Guns]

Sorry about everything you've gone through the past couple of days, I know you probably feel like the skys just fallen on you and everythings just happened at once, but dont just give up. Your uncle and other realative wouldnt want you to do that. And as for your parents finding out your gay, I bet thats hard to deal with too, but i'm sure they'll accept it in time, even if it takes a long time, at the end of they day, they'll still love you no matter what they say about that and things will get better and easier.

[YourFriend]

Yes i know they do and will love me no matter what, but if that gets in public, i am really gonna end up in a hospital.

[Project Delta]

I hope your parents come to terms with the fact your gay. Hopefully they will just accept it in silent defeat, that would be best probably, best of luck