What to say!!!!

[bos_cool]

I have very limited confidence when it comes to girls... so i have no idea what to say. Say if i was at a party or at a shoping mall or somethin and i see a hot girl(s). what the f**k would i say. how do i introduce myself. how do i make it not arkward? how would i know what hints there are for both a rejection and attraction/interest? please help!!! thanks

[Rogue27]

Well see if there is anything both of you are interested in... An icebreaker. Then introduce yourself and be nice and be yourself. Don't be fake. It is better to have someone like you for who you are than a bunch of lies. As for hints if the girl doesn't seem interested she probably isn't. It depends on what type of girls you are talking to.

[Gumleaf]

well there is a trick, you don't look at new girls as a potential girlfriend but more like a new person to meet and get to know. if they happen to be female and hot, well so be it. all you need to do is be in the mindset that you have nothing to lose and all your plan should be at this point is to simply introduce yourself and just let things flow from there. all you have to do is say hi. its really that easy.

[kyle95]

first of all, calm down when you notice a girl mate. they don't like blokes who look like one-eyed dogs in a butcher shop. speak clearly (don't swallow your words, say exactly what you mean, speak loudly), be confident. some typical lines:
- great seeing you here, i was getting bored walking around
- i was just about to go to the food court, care to join me?
- im going to the pet shop to look at some kittens and puppies, want to see some with me?
- would you like to meet here again sometime?

keep it simple and make her feel safe, comfortable and allow her to say 'no'. girls don't like to be cornered or pressured. if she declines, tell it was indeed a pleasure seeing her and wish her a wonderful day. don't look crushed or hurt because she didn't do anything wrong.

you'll soon learn to appreciate their maturity and begin to do things at their level. just be confident, they don't expect a bloke to say much, but measure what you and how you say it. good luck mate

[AllThatIsLeft]

first of all, calm down when you notice a girl mate. they don't like blokes who look like one-eyed dogs in a butcher shop. speak clearly (don't swallow your words, say exactly what you mean, speak loudly), be confident. some typical lines:
- great seeing you here, i was getting bored walking around
- i was just about to go to the food court, care to join me?
- im going to the pet shop to look at some kittens and puppies, want to see some with me?
- would you like to meet here again sometime?



no offence but i would turn down all those.. bit creepy.

Keep it simple,
-Hey i'm [insert name here], i just thought i'd say hi, you look like a nice girl and it'd be a shame to not talk to you"

Be polite but confident
direct but not agressive

kk?

[kyle95]

no offence but i would turn down all those.. bit creepy.

Keep it simple,
-Hey i'm [insert name here], i just thought i'd say hi, you look like a nice girl and it'd be a shame to not talk to you"

Be polite but confident
direct but not agressive

kk?

none taken. you would know better than i what would work with a girl :)

[IAMWILL]

The casual "Hey, I'm ___" followed by compliment in a non-I-want-to-date-you way tends to work nice. All your doing is talking to another human being. It really bugs me when people ask "how do i talk to her" because the answer is always the same! Your talking to another human. It really beggs the question in todays heirarcheal-selective world: How hard can it be to be yourself?