Cute guy in summer school!

[bluepink222]

recently i've noticed this cute guy @ summer school. at first i didn't really notice him... it wasn't until this one time on the bus when i saw this cute guy looking at me. i was thinking that probably he wasn't looking at me and i just saw wrong or something so i didn't really think about it.

at break the next day, i see him staring at me again... or "in my direction". not too sure but it seemed like it. well then after school i went to the bus stop, and he kept on looking at my way. when we were going on the bus i was like right behind him, but the door closed right when i was at the door cus there was too many ppl, and i was just standing there with my friends and i saw him looking out the door at me. >< t

then i'm starting to realize that maybe he's actually looking at me... o_o. so then today i was on the bus and i saw him glancing down at me (he's way taller than me), and i'm like.... hm. when tons of ppl got off the bus, i went to sit down, but then i got up and walked to the back to see if there was more room, but there wasn't, so i turned around to sit at an empty spot, and he was like right at that spot. he was just standing there and looking at me, gesturing to let me sit at that spot.

omg i sound like some little girl crushing on a guy eeek help please >< why is he always staring at me? i mean... i don't really think he has a crush on me or anything. i saw on his facebook and some people were saying congrats on getting a gf (but that was in april). X(

[electric_feel01]

Maybe he does have an interest in you! It's probable that he did breakup with his alleged girlfriend and that he's ready to move on with you. Anyways, we only have one life, so why not take the plunge and find out if he truly does like you. If everything does work out, you still have to consider if you can see eachother even after summer school & the summer.

[bluepink222]

i don't really know what to do... because i'm totally not the type to just approach a guy. :/ we see each other on the bus everyday... and yeahhh. we make eye contact sometimes, but i don't think it really means much... maybe it's just because he always sees me or something ><"

[Gumleaf]

well perhaps you could approach him next time you catch him looking at you. if he does like you already he might be shy or looking for some confirmation or something. so maybe just say hi to him, try and break down that first barrier and talk. you have nothing to lose here and if nothing else you might get a new friend out of it which is always nice.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

um go for it, why wast time while you could get to know him

[kyle95]

its really nice that he's noticing you. change nothing, obviously he's interested in you just the way you are. he will make the move and talk to you. the fb thing means nothing, so he has a past, who doesn't. also, just because he's looking at you doesn't mean he has the right intentions either. some blokes like a feather in their caps, seeing how many girls they can have looking at them by feigning interest. it's a double edged sword because blokes eventually fall victim to their own game and actually end up falling in love. so play your cards right, be cool and let him step forward and commit.

[bluepink222]

^ haha erm nice metaphor x) well, thanks for the advice. but i guess sitting here and doing nothing won't help much either. so pretty soon i have to do something about it too >< maybe i can start by making small talk on the bus? i don't know if that'll work. is it possible that people always look at people they see on the bus everyday? maybe that's the reason he's looking...

[YourFriend]

Sounds like he has a crush on you.

[LismLFC]

Sounds good :) if you don't know him that well maybe you should go and talk to him and get to know him. Who knows where these things may lead? ;)

[kyle95]

small talk may help

[bluepink222]

eh thanks guys, but i don't know anymore =T this week he didn't really look at me, like not on the bus or at school. i always see him on the bus and i literally just try to catch his eye, but he never looks at me. the only time was when we were both going up the stairs, and i was behind him, and he kept on looking back at me. did he lose interest already?? x(

[Aves]

eh thanks guys, but i don't know anymore =T this week he didn't really look at me, like not on the bus or at school. i always see him on the bus and i literally just try to catch his eye, but he never looks at me. the only time was when we were both going up the stairs, and i was behind him, and he kept on looking back at me. did he lose interest already?? x(

I don't think he has, and even if, just talk to him. You can still make a new friend. :yes: