I don't know what to do.

[Rogue27]

Well I am going out with this guy and itvjas been a couple of days. We have liked each other for like a year and he finally wanted to go out. But be didn't call me for like 3 days so when I called him we talked for 45 min. I could tell he was uncomftorble talking to me he was quiet most of the time. He finally said "alright I'm going" when I asked him a question and then we hung up. Should I break up with him?

[Aves]

Hmmm. It's hard to say, he might be so busy those 3 days he couldn't call you. Also maybe something bad had happened, and he doesn't feel like talking. I say you ask him if somethings wrong, and when he says why (which he probably will), just tell him that it seems like you two aren't talking to each other that much lately.

[Natoja12]

He could be uncomfortable maybe he's shy... Is this his first relationship?

[Rogue27]

I know nothing bad happened because I know his family and he hasn't been too busy to call me and talk. The way he was talking it was like he didn't want to be there. I think this might be his first relationship. I no he has a lot of female friends though.

[kyle95]

if he's doing this to you already, you can expect a bumpy ride down the road. i say drop the jerk. he ought to know you're hanging by a thread and waiting for him. it's a power game and an abusive one. he trying to get you on his emotional roller coaster game ride. skip the ride, move on and be thankful you saw the warning signs early

[electric_feel01]

Maybe you should give him some more time & see how things play out. Although the "having a lot of female friends" situation does seem suspicious, don't assume anything right away.

[Gumleaf]

i think you need to give him some time. there might be something troubling him and i think if your relationship is worth it to you, you should give him some space. if this continues though i think you need to ask him directly what is wrong and then depending on his answer, you can figure out what to do.

[Rogue27]

Thanx. I know he is not intentionally trying to hurt me. He is sweet. When we are together he is fine and nice so I just don't know. I am going to wait but I am almost 100% sure he is not going to call.