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curious1m
July 21st, 2009, 07:54 PM
I am not looking for how to hook up, but I'd like to sleepover with a good friend of mine just to see if there was ever a possibility of fooling around. Any ideas on how to approach having the actual sleepover. Would kinda like it to be at his place.

bowlheadhere
July 21st, 2009, 08:42 PM
If you would want a sleep over, I suggest that you do it at your place first. I would just invite him over to hang out and stuff, and then ask if he can sleep over if everything is going good. That will send the message that you enjoy hanging out/want to become even closer friends. Then take it from there, depending on how you feel/how you think he feels.

Always works for me...

Antares
July 21st, 2009, 08:49 PM
Boys Puberty :arrow: Family and Friends

tripolar
July 21st, 2009, 09:19 PM
My friend straight up asked me when i slept over at his house, took him alot of balls, but i don't recommend this unless you think he wouldn't react badly.

James18
July 21st, 2009, 09:33 PM
The sleepover part should be simple enough, just ask or whatever. As for the "fooling around" you'll need to get a bit more creative.

curious1m
July 21st, 2009, 09:40 PM
The sleepover part should be simple enough, just ask or whatever. As for the "fooling around" you'll need to get a bit more creative.

and thats where i need help is with the creativity...lol

tripolar
July 21st, 2009, 09:44 PM
and thats where i need help is with the creativity...lol

Do you think he would mess around, does he seem like he is curious or bi, does he say homophobic things? Put all of that into consideration.

Yesterdays Hero
July 22nd, 2009, 08:11 AM
Well, you should just come out and ask him, it shouldn't be too awkward, it's just a sleepover, it's not like you're saying "Hey, do you wanna have sex with me?" To get rid of some of the awkwardness, I think it would be better if you asked him to sleepover at your place, if you ask if you can sleepover at his place, you might seem a little too eager.

YourFriend
July 22nd, 2009, 04:28 PM
Easy enough, just ask: "can i sleep over at your house"? Or you can do it in your.

whitecar
July 23rd, 2009, 12:17 AM
I think if you come out and ask him "Can I sleep over at your house?" that it'll seem like you're inviting yourself over and seriously imposing on him. If someone I knew (not a close friend) asked me if they could come over and sleep over at my house (unless they were in a bind or something) I'd probably say no.

elliot_47
July 23rd, 2009, 12:36 AM
if u wanna see if he's curious/bi or not, take your clothes off before you go to bed in front of him and see if he stares at you. if u get a boner then thats just all the better. see if he stares at ur underwear.

Wonder.
July 23rd, 2009, 12:17 PM
I would say to have a normal sleepover. Then some other time have another sleepover and try to get what you want.

spamuel
July 23rd, 2009, 04:39 PM
try watching porn together and see how things progress, usually helps

Shoedue
July 29th, 2009, 11:27 AM
try watching porn together and see how things progress, usually helps

yes, it worked for me...just naturally pop your pecker out and see if he does the same