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mosaic.
July 20th, 2009, 08:42 PM
I do think this can be beneficial to those who are questioning their own sexuality as well.

What makes people think that they would never date/marry/love/become emotionally connected with a particular sex?

I can understand the physical side of it. All men have penises. All women have vaginas. It's not stereotypical, it's fact. All members of a particular sex share something in common. So I can see where the preference comes into play.

But emotionally, is there something that segregates men and women? Or are we all uniquely human in that aspect?

What is it that makes a guy say, "I would never love a guy?" and the same for girls?

I really am curious about this. Do you think it's the fact that society is less accepting, or something else?

AllThatIsLeft
July 20th, 2009, 08:54 PM
I think that state is wrong. Because i have loved girls.
It's just, it's a different type of love.
I could never be IN love with a girl, because they don't have the traits I look for in a partner.

When someone says they physically attracted to someone, it's not even that. What it really is, is sexual.
Because even physique is part of that attraction that comes with sentiment.

teendude_1991
July 20th, 2009, 09:29 PM
I think that women are more open to such experiences than men, but here is where the dichotomy lies. Most people think you "turn" gay, but I'm not convinced. I think you are born gay, and that it is not a choice. All humans I believe are attracted to the same sex at some point or another. I don't see why we couldn't love the same sex, as you say, because we are all humans, we all have the same innards, our outer parts are all that is different.

mosaic.
July 20th, 2009, 10:16 PM
That kind of love is different. I am referring to romantic love.

What is it about girls that makes them incompatible to be your partner?