OMFG! Panic!!! Need Advice Tonight or It'll Be Too Late (:^{

[The Harlequin]

OMG!

I'm still (largely) closet bi, with the intention of making it public fairly soon, there is this guy who I REALLY like, and our mutual friend has suddenly organised us three to meet up tomorrow...

I've not seen him in ages, so a week or so ago when she mentioned meeting up I was keen, but omfg! That's in under 13 hours.... I'm not even out yet but I really like him and have NO idea when there would be another oppertunity!!! So I agreed, also not wanting him to think I'm blowing him off...

A handful of my friends know...
And it probably by now is a fresh rumour, spreading very slowly atm... God only knows how quickly these things gather pace, but it could be that he already knows...

Not only all THAT but I got treatment for two small warts on my right hand today and there are now red-raw blisters on two of my knuckles ~ I want to impress him damnit! The last thing I need are great red rings around two hardly flattering features of mine...

Oh shit...
What do I DO?!

I have less than 13 hours to work out what to do!

[tyler27846]

if u know it would be too late i would tell him

[byee]

Well, calm down, first off. This is all very complicated, and eventhough the opportunity might present it self tonight, and you're looking forward to it, the issue isn't so much 'opportunity' but 'readiness'. Because 'readiness'=success.

So, regardless of the opportunity, if you've assessed that this isn't the right time, that the groundwork isn't there for this tomwork out, then it might be best to just let it pass. If it was meant to be, there will be another opportunity, perhaps after you've done some of the preliminaries, and feel a bit more confident.

[The Harlequin]

if u know it would be too late i would tell him

By too late I mean it'll have already happened by 1 o'clock tomorrow and therefore any advice has to come NOW otherwise I'll probably make an unbelievable cock-up of everything and be mickig mysel later for it...

So in short I don't get what you mean... Could you please make it more clear? (thank you SO much for any advice)

[tyler27846]

tell him how you fell about him try to bring it up in a conversation by seeing his views on sexuality

[The Harlequin]

tell him how you fell about him try to bring it up in a conversation by seeing his views on sexuality

Okay but ~ tomorrow it isn't just gonna be me and him, there's going to be the girl who organised the whole thing, so how could I bring up that kinda subject matter with her around (sadly she isn't the type to keep secrets long if at all) he might not want to discuss what he really thinks in front of her,

Please keep the advice coming,
thank you all!

[tripolar]

Okay but ~ tomorrow it isn't just gonna be me and him, there's going to be the girl who organised the whole thing, so how could I bring up that kinda subject matter with her around (sadly she isn't the type to keep secrets long if at all) he might not want to discuss what he really thinks in front of her,

Please keep the advice coming,
thank you all!

Why don't you get his contact information like a phone number and meet him or talk to him again in private to bring up sexuality with out your friend hearing it. and trust me if he knows she can't keep secrets he won't tell the truth.

[The Joker]

How did it go?

[JimSauce]

Yeah did you guys hook up?:yeah:

[The Harlequin]

Nahhh, we met up and walked to the girl's house which was great, even just talking with him was great on our own, ya know? Spent all day with them at her house which was great and on the way home I asked if he liked anyone and he wouldn't say, but we were flirting subtly all day, it was niceeee (:^,

On the way I said I was slightly bummed out that it was getting dark and chavs are nocturnal creatures, and he offered to walk me home a part of the way, he went about half a mile out of his way just to see I was okay (:^,

One thing I do know is that he is closet ~ at the moment he is clearly gay, a number of people ask about it but the girl (before mentioned) says that he's straight, but there's just no way, you know when you can just tell?

The three of us are gonna meet up again soon,
Hell ~ I actually can't stop thinking about him.... (:^,

[The Joker]

That's really cute!

[boysboysboys]

awwwwwww isnt that sweet.

i know exactly how you feel.
theres a guy i like and when i get to talk to him i go all warm and fuzzy inside especially when he is 'playful'- and hes straight so there is still hope for me and you

go get him!!

[tommycg95]

Just Remember that IT'S NEVER TOO LATE