idk what to do

[vurt7]

ok so me and my cousin used to be really close. We would always talk about sex and j/o and stuff. one time I masterbated him, not like touching him just rubbing from the outside and we would sometimes j/o in the same room. but all of a sudden he doesnt want to talk about that stuff or do anything and I just feel we aren't as close

[jake_11]

He's probably feeling guilty or like what ya'll did was wrong... so that's why he's reacting this way. He was get past it, but he may not.

Depends how horny he gets.
=P

[nick]

Just let it drop. Sorry if thats not the answer you wanted to hear, but if he's not comfortable about it anymore you need to respect that and just move on.

[yoyo]

:Dlike jake said hes probribly gilty when i fight with my friend the next day it never hapind... mayby he thought it wasint right hope i helped.... and move on lik just n said

[ylllek nivyer]

well, its not really something every one does, you know. masturbating with your cousin... so maybe he realized that and now its weird for him, even though its still cool with you. i'm sure you guys could find things to keep you close other than that.

[jake_11]

Yeah, I'm sure the weirdness won't last FOREVER. If you want it to go away it's probably best to move past it.

[YourFriend]

Leave it. You can ruin a friendship, not worth the risk in my eyes.

[CestDan]

Let it go. Don't worry about it. Now, if you trust him, you can talk with him about it, but not in the way that you have done it, I mean, do it in a more serious way.

[Skeln]

I agree with those who said to just drop the whole thing then. If he's not comfortable with it then it's best to not bring it up then.

[James18]

Just drop it and move on. He might bring it up sometime, and then maybe you'll get a better idea for what's going on.

[Mzor203]

There could be any number of reasons why he is suddenly acting like this, but I think the most likely reason is this:

I don't know how old your cousin is, but I'm going to assume it's somewhere around the age as you. As you go through puberty, you are going to make some decisions which you would not otherwise make if you weren't under the influence of so many hormones, such as masturbating with other people. As he gets older, his view on these things are going to change, and as he is less influenced, he is going to realize a couple of things.

It might simply make him uncomfortable. Or he might have realized that there are a good deal of complications that could come out of this close of a relationship with a friend or cousin. As he really matures, he is going to look at things with a more critical eye.

The answer, as others have said, is to respect his decisions and realize that it isn't nice to try to force him into something which could have so much emotional impact on your friendship. So just keep being cousins, don't worry about the sexual aspects of the relationship.

[bowlheadhere]

I think that he might just feel guilty or has moved past that phase. I would just move past it and not really talk about it if he feels uncomfortable because you shouldnt really push anyone to do something they dont want to.

[JackOfClubs]

Maybe he's just grown older and gotten past that stage.

[DJthekid]

he may just feel very awkward and guilty about doing it

[Solosakuri]

maybe he thought it was too much like incest?

[Donkey]

Just stop masturbating with him and act as if he was your cousin and not your partner.

Masturbation is a private thing not to do with family members.