coming out to parents

[Trumpeter_2911]

im sittin here right now, i wanna tell mum, im certain i want to tell her, i am frozen solid by fear to tell her, im crying because i need to tell her, but im frozen with fear about what might happen, will she take it badly? will she kick me out? im lost. i tried, but my legs went to jelly and i fell over, i needed to vent this, im so scared

[nick]

Lex,

tried to come and find you in the chatroom but just missed you. Sorry you feel so cut up about this. Somehow you either have to take the risk and come out to her or choose to keep quiet for a bit longer. From what some of the other guys have written I get the impression that Australia is probably a bit more hostile to gays & bis than the UK. That must make it difficult. But hopefully your mum loves you for who you are and will always love you no matter what.

One alternative, not sure whether its a good idea or if anyone else has done it this way, would be to write her a note or a letter.

Its a tough thing. I'm still in the closet mate. Good luck.

[Trumpeter_2911]

australia's tollerant, like extremely, just my bro doesnt accpet it, and mum im not even sure how she will react

but thank you for trying to help, i appreciate it :D

i just did it and i feel so much better now :D



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[nick]

Excellent, I take it from the smiley that you didnt get too bad a reaction. Really pleased for you.

[Axellance]

im glad you where able to take that step, so she must have taken it well huh? thats great news for you :)

[Triceratops]

It's fantastic that you had the confidence to tell her about it.
So kudo's to you. =]
It seems that you got a pretty good response. That's brilliant. :)

[byee]

WHOA! Telling your parents is a big step, you're right to question it. Just take it slow and make a plan here, part of which should be understanding why you need to tell her now and what you're hoping to gain. These are important questions to resolve in your mind first, that way you're better able to tolerate whatever happens. Try not to respond to the urge without giving it some thought and resolving some of these issues!

[megan101]

well done = ] xxxx

[yoyo]

wat are u guys talking about wat did trumpit do????

[Θάνατος]

wat are u guys talking about wat did trumpit do????

After struggling whether or not to come out and tell his sexuality to his mom. He came out and told her and by his reaction it went good.


Hey congrats dude all of us suffer about coming out and being accepted.

[YourFriend]

No need to tell 'em, but if they'll accept it then you can, it's your choice.

[ackmedsgirl666]

congrats there
i had the same thing going as you for a while too