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Wonder.
July 19th, 2009, 09:51 PM
If you think you are in love, think about this:

1. Are you truely in love with them? Or are you in love with the memories you two had together? That happened to me before.

2. Make a list in your head of what you like about them and what you don't like about them. Nomally you shouldn't do this but in this case it helps.

3. Would you be comfortable with the relationship? Sometimes you won't.

4. Do you have the guts to say I love you to them?

5. When you break up with them, do you think you two will still be friends? Maybe you won't break up but you probably will. Why ruin a friendship because of a bad love relationship?

That's just five things. Can you think of anymore?

Added list:
Are you in love with the person or just their body?

Hewhohasnoriches
July 19th, 2009, 10:10 PM
Are you in love with HER (or HIM), or are you just in love with the body?

I'll admit, that happens with me TOO many times.

Some guys will just want to get in a chick's pants. Try not to have hormones make ALL of the relationship decisions for you. Perhaps the "looks" can draw you towards the girl, but they should not have you thinking that you love her (or him). Especially, if you don't know jack about her.

I don't know much about true love or dating, but this is my input, so... yeah.