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xhelgrindx
July 19th, 2009, 11:45 AM
So i just found out that my ex has feelings for me. Of course i have feelings for her. But she said that she wants to wait or something along those lines. im going to talk to her about this more later today. Later today she posted a bulletin on myspace and it said that she liked 3 boys. So im wondering if she is using me as a backup or something along those lines.

IAMWILL
July 19th, 2009, 02:18 PM
Well, I think she's either A) Confused about who she likes, B) Teasing or C) Testing you too see how you respond. I'd think A or B, and really, its just because i think she is confused about whether she likes you or not. You just have to wait and see how things turn out, theres nothing you can do about teenage drama.

tripolar
July 19th, 2009, 03:51 PM
Do you want to get back with her, you may have feelings for her but do ou want to get back together and make her a part of your life again, Why did you break up, that would help and determining why you should see if you want to get back together.

kyle95
July 19th, 2009, 04:52 PM
mate, she's your ex for a reason. stay that way unless something really changes that leaves no doubt in your mind. myspace postings are staged. i wouldn't put any stock in them mate. what she discusses with will and should matter more. if it bothers you, ask her about it. good luck

Aves
July 19th, 2009, 08:45 PM
Play it cool, she could be messing w/ you about the 3 boys thing.

rubidoux
July 19th, 2009, 08:48 PM
I wouldn't wait around for a chick who can't decide between three guys if I were you.

Aves
July 19th, 2009, 08:53 PM
I wouldn't wait around for a chick who can't decide between three guys if I were you.

But for all we know she could be kidding.

rubidoux
July 19th, 2009, 08:55 PM
But for all we know she could be kidding.

I kind of doubt that.

Anyway I'm not saying if she comes around and wants to be with him, and he wants that too, that he should automatically say no. I just don't think he should put his life on hold for someone who doesn't know what she wants. I'm sure if she decides she wants to be with him, she'll know where to find him, and then he can decide if it's what he wants also.

xhelgrindx
July 20th, 2009, 12:09 AM
well we hung out today and she didnt say anything about it today. im really fucking confused. im having a hard time determining whats real and whats dream. is there something wrong with me or is that weird. p.s its been since febuary since we went out. we broke up because i really never made a move. were also like best friends now.

thanks for posting. you guys have really helped me out...............................................................

Thx for posting will....

Please refrain from double posting, just use the edit feature instead. ~Will

ebony15
July 21st, 2009, 05:45 PM
I kind of doubt that.

Anyway I'm not saying if she comes around and wants to be with him, and he wants that too, that he should automatically say no. I just don't think he should put his life on hold for someone who doesn't know what she wants. I'm sure if she decides she wants to be with him, she'll know where to find him, and then he can decide if it's what he wants also.

Amen to that ..Maybe she's scared of starting over again thats why she's confused ?? Anyways---- after all this time of not being together, and now you found out she still has feelings for you... then what are you gonna do about it? .. does it make an impact on you?