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cmonaussiecmon
July 19th, 2009, 09:18 AM
Hi everybody.

Well im a 14 year old guy and im not too sure about my sexuality. Im pretty sure im bi but i really wanna be straight. Like i reckon my guy best friend is good looking but would never date a guy. Also attracted to girls a fair bit. Dont mind gay porn too.

Im not sure

AutumnDae
July 19th, 2009, 09:28 AM
If you were bisexual, there would be an emotional attraction as well as the physical. You're 14, and going through puberty, that means lots and lots of hormones. You also have eyes, you can see when someone is good looking. I go through the mall sometimes, and I can tell an attractive girl out of a crowd. I don't want to date her, but I can obviously see that she is good looking. Lots of people watch gay porn as well, straight, bisexual, gay. Porn doesn't define your sexuality. You do.

When you say "would never date a guy" that means your emotional attraction is only towards girls.

nick
July 19th, 2009, 10:20 AM
Hi and welcome to VT.

I'm bi, from what you've said so far you're not. Like Autumn says, you sound like a str8 guy that can tell when another bloke's good looking.

pm me if you have any questions that I might be able to help with.

Skeln
July 19th, 2009, 03:35 PM
Bisexuality is an emotional attraction to both sexes. If you are just physically attracted then your probably not bi but we can't say for sure. Only you can decide.

mr.sexy_bomb
July 20th, 2009, 12:49 AM
dude there's nothing wrong with being bisexual :)

mosaic.
July 20th, 2009, 12:57 AM
I think it's a bit early to tell, but it seems like you're drifting towards bisexuality. As you get older, that will refine itself.

XxemorawrxX
July 20th, 2009, 01:53 AM
I think it's a bit early to tell, but it seems like you're drifting towards bisexuality. As you get older, that will refine itself.

I agree =). I read that a person's sexuality isn't even defined until they're 18. Being bi is actually a pretty good thing because it means you have options. If I were you I'd take the physical attraction into consideration but don't try to define yourself. Just look at everyone as people, and if you really like that person and wanna be in a relationship with them then go for it. Just be open-minded =).

asianboy281
July 20th, 2009, 01:51 PM
wow there are so many stories that similar to mine

like i want to experiment with guys but i am still very attracted to girls
and i like looking at gay porn but not straight porn something bout the pussy i dont like.

ohh and hi im new

yoyo
July 20th, 2009, 01:55 PM
even if ur straght u still mastrbate and look at porn somtimes evryone does

teendude_1991
July 21st, 2009, 09:35 PM
Well, right now you are a normal fourteen year old boy, and I think you are confused. Listen, you are too young to be worrying about what your sexuality is. Sexuality, inevitably, is associated with sex, hence it being the root word, and you are too young. So, in essence, your hormones are dancing you all over the place, and you are their puppet. Just wait until you are out of the throes of puberty and then ask yourself that question. Good luck!:)

Nelson
July 24th, 2009, 01:32 PM
i reckon its fine... im bi secretly to my friends... but they all wouldnt mind...i think there all bi or gay or lesbian... its fine be yourself

the_conquerer
July 24th, 2009, 03:00 PM
I think its just curiosity but theres nothing wrong with being bi so dont feel presurised in to being straight!

YourFriend
July 25th, 2009, 06:00 PM
You're curious, to be bi, you have to be emotionally attracted to both genders.