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SimSailorNick
July 19th, 2009, 06:32 AM
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July 19th, 2009, 06:43 AM
From what you have explained here, No you are not gay.
Most what you are going through is a stage of puberty where you are very hormonal and horny.
I would say explore and test your sexuality here and not be so quick to want to put a label on what your sexuality is.
byee
July 19th, 2009, 09:39 AM
This is probably THE most asked question here, I've done a sticky of it at the link in my sig.
Briefly, though, being gay isn't just about arousal, what turns you on, it's about emotions, how you see yourself as a boy, how you see and experience girls and their ability to nurture and care and love you and how much you trust them. It's about who you see as your primary emotional attachment. it's all a bit too involved to address here, but maybe you get the point.
It's easy to confuse the arousal you feel now with something broader and more encompassing, but unless you also feel and experience all that *other* emotional stuff, you're just a hormonal teenager.
Skeln
July 19th, 2009, 03:38 PM
If you're ot emotionally atrracted to guys at all currently then you're probably straight with some curiosity but we can't say for sure. I wouldn't worry about it too much if I were you.
mosaic.
July 19th, 2009, 10:42 PM
I'm not trying to play the devil's advocate, but rather be concise and honest with you.
Yes, I think you're gay.
Many people who are attracted to men physically will say that they aren't emotionally. Believe me, that was my excuse for YEARS.
But there's always the possibility that someone of the same sex will come around and you'll find that emotional attachment. I found it.
You can be physically attracted to primarily guys, but that doesn't mean EVERY guy.
(The exact same with girls)
And this stands true for emotional attachment as well. Hopefully you'll find it.
tripolar
July 19th, 2009, 11:08 PM
Your just curious, thinking and trying about new things, only time will tell, anyway sounds more bi than gay, but just let it run its coarse and you eventually find out who you are.
YourFriend
July 24th, 2009, 04:08 PM
You're probably str8 and curious.
pkid
July 25th, 2009, 12:43 AM
You are just going through hormones, and phases. If you dont want to be gay, not saying there is anything wrong with it, but if you want to be straight then stop looking at gay porn, or porn altogether. You could be bi, but you never know until you, yourself is sure.
Natoja12
July 25th, 2009, 07:59 PM
lots of guys get turned on by gay porn. no big deal. I doubt ur gay if ur emotionally attached to girls. i wold say ur struaght but u could be bi.
geniusrocksoutloud
July 26th, 2009, 05:45 AM
Its your decision if your gay or not. You know yourself if your gay. Im almost exactly like you and im straight. Watching gay porn doesnt make you gay
nikki_creampie
July 26th, 2009, 07:14 AM
well if you start enjoying pleasuring yourself with female sex toys like dildo sticking in your ass... then you're must be gay...
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JackOfClubs
July 28th, 2009, 11:55 AM
well if you start enjoying pleasuring yourself with female sex toys like dildo sticking in your ass... then you're must be gay...
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No, that doesn't mean he's gay. Anal masturbation does not mean in anyway that you are gay, its just a different form of masturbation.
If you don't have any physical attraction towards guys then you're not gay. I'd say you're straight and curious.
cole g
August 5th, 2009, 01:55 PM
No you are not gay.
MichaelAdams1993
August 5th, 2009, 09:14 PM
No, it sounds like you just subject to all the raging hormones of us teens. Anything sexual can get you turned on right now and since you say you like women more and can't see yourself in a relationship with a guy then I would say you are missing the emotional connection and to be gay you need to have a physical AND emotional connection to guys.
thedudeman
August 7th, 2009, 04:18 AM
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kalkidude
August 9th, 2009, 02:23 PM
I know there are a lot of posts like this but i just wanted to ask for myself.
I am currently 15. I watch gay porn and get turned on by guys but i don't see myself having a relationship with a guy. I mean I'm more attracted to women emotionally. I'm really not sure of what I am right now... :confused:
dudeee you are not gay
thats how i feel
simply flow with your feelings
and do not rush into labeling yourself!!!!!
simply be.
it's all okkk
social conventions are lame and outdated
(this planet is very primitive)
computerwizard
August 10th, 2009, 08:45 PM
Nobody can really tell you whether you are or not. There is much more to something like that than your age and interests momentarily. This is something that you must explore and find out for yourself. Don't let anyone tell you what you are or aren't, or what you should or shouldn't be.
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