I'm really confused ?

[BLAH.]

Am I gay ?

I am 13 and I am male.

I get erections over penis'.
I fancy girls and want to have relationships with girls and I sometimes get erections by thinking about kissing girls, thinking about holding girls hands and when girls hug me and sit on my knee in a friendly way, HOWEVER I don't get erections over their breasts or vaginas.

As I get older will I stop gettin erections over men and start getting erections over women's breasts and vaginas ?

[mr.sexy_bomb]

could be or you might be bi, which means you like both guys and girls

[naruus]

I dont think you have much to worry about, it is completely natural for you to get erections over other men's Penis'. Human nature to be curious, remember, being a sexuality isnt just about who you get erections over, its about who you get emotionally attracted to.

[BLAH.]

Thank you for answering.

Anymore answers anybody ?

[itsandrew_]

you are not gay, you are normal. most, if not all guys get a erection over other guys penises. this has to do with hormones and curiosity.

[Mr. Awesome]

At this stage in your life hormones are running wild.

This may be the reason why you find yourself gettin erections of penises

However i noticed that you did not say that you were emotionally attracted to any men but you do say that you wish to have relationships with girls. Which would lead me to say no you are not gay but curious and your hormones will cause you to feel aroused at the sight of a penis

[YourFriend]

You cannot be gay since you have attraction to girls, but if you have emotional attraction to both guys and girls, then you're probably bisexual. But, don't label yourself yet, there's plenty of time left.

[BLAH.]

Thank you.

[nick]

You cannot be gay since you have attraction to girls, but if you have emotional attraction to both guys and girls, then you're probably bisexual. But, don't label yourself yet, there's plenty of time left.

I agree. Give it more time, as your puperty progresses things will no doubt become clearer. Don't be in too much of a hurry to attach a label to yourself.

[pkid]

I think you are just sexually curious. It seems as though you want to know what it would be like to do sexual things with a guy. But again if you dont want to be gay or bi, nothing wrong with it, but if you dont you should stop looking at porn and get yourself busy by either getting a girlfriend.

[BLAH.]

Thanks.

[Natoja12]

my theorie is that guys/girls....During puberty become very curious about themselves and other ppl of the same sex. But at the same time they would rather be with the oppisite sex. I think for girls its cuz you want to be like other girls and the same goes for guys. Like maybe if you watch porn youve noticed something guys have that you havnt developed or that ur penis isnt as long. So by thinking about theres you go erect. While really your thinking about what you want. i dunno, but i think thats what it is. Also for as far as not being interested in a girls vagina or breasts, i wouldnt worry to much. maybe ur just not into it at ur age. who nos.

[BLAH.]

Thanks

[BLAH.]

I know this thread is from about 5 months ago, but I didn't really want to create a new one.

Well anyway...

I'm even more confused now, I fancy one of my close friends (a girl) and, recently, I haven't been able to stop thinking about her... and I have been wanting to have sex with her :S

So surely I can't be gay now? It must have just been my hormones? What do you think?

Also, is it a bit creepy and a bit weird that I have been thinking about me and her having sex and doing other sexual stuff?

[Don3]

yes, probably...do you still get erections over penises?......do you consider yourself str8 now?

[Wonders]

i know you want to be older than you are .. but ... your [B]13!...[B] dont make any rach decisions and coming outs until youve experienced time with a girl... the only reason you may be attracted to a penis and males is because you want tol look like that... (if your looking at porn and shirtless guys that is....) my point is your too young to know what you are yet... you just have to experience those moments... you cant just go off of what you see... you have to feel it also...

[BLAH.]

Thank you.

Oh by the way, I know this won't make a difference but I'm 14 now xD