confused

[cdog86]

when im not turned on im fine but when i get horny i become really gay i usually watch gay porn, again when im not horny im mentally straight i dont want to be gay, i know that its part of puberty and hormones but this has been going on for 2 years how much longer til this wears off

[IAMWILL]

Well, it will probably wear off when your main stages of puberty wear off, which normally isn't for awhile. Apparently you understand how hormones make you go crazy pretty much, so really its just a matter of human nature. Considering it doesn't seem like you dislike this, i would just leave it and accept it. Its going to happen, and hey, why don't you enjoy the benefits while you can. At another time later in your life (probably soon), you will have no urge to do this at all.

[Jman35]

Maybe you are bisexual or homosexual, you never know. I guess you'll have to find out but right now, I would not worry.

[orangecounty]

It sounds like you are bisexual...but I wouldn't get all caught up in labels just yet. Just do what feels right to you and enjoy your youth. Worry about giving yourself a label once puberty is over and your hormones aren't clouding your thought.

[marty]

it is possible that you're bisexual. it could be possible that you are just curious. don't worry about it.

[byee]

This q comes up a lot, I've done a sticky explaining it more fully if you click the link on my siggy.

But briefly, as my young 'un Williamthegreat has said, what arouses you as a teenager isn't necessarily indicative of your sexuality. That's b/c being 'gay' or 'bi' is as much about emotions, how you feel about yourself as a boy, and how you feel about girls and tehir capacity for intimacy and love and trust. Arousal just means your eyes and gonads work. You need the emotional piece as well. In the absence of that, it's just puberty.

[bowlheadhere]

Well, the first thing I want to say is that you should probably use the word "gay" in a more reserved way, for it offends a lot of people the way that you use it. Anyways, this is completely normal! You are simply curious about the other sex, how you will develope, and are simply more arroused by the male genitalia (in a national study, an overwelming number of males are more arroused by the image of the male genitalia, appose to the female genitalia). With this said, you may or may not grow out of it (from the last point). It is entirely okay to use such material to masterbate, even though you may be straight. Just remember that most of the males in the United States would rather masterbate to the image of male genetalia rather than females.

Hope this helps?

[bos_cool]

thats kinda the same as me. i dont like that shit usually. but love in when im horny. its really annoying!!!

[Skeln]

Well it'll last for as long as your hormones are raging. Many teens go through this and you just have to live with it as most of us have to. If you're not emotionally attracted to guys then you're most likely straight with a bit of curiosity, but we have no right nor the knowledge to determine your sexuality. That's your job.

[DylanY]

every one is right it will wear off soon

~Dylan Young

[DJthekid]

yea it should wear off soon

[kyle95]

have you tried looking at other types or better yet, getting rid of porn? it places an unrealistic expectation and it seems to deliver gratification on demand. surely it can't be that way in real life. try focusing your attention on getting a gf and put that stuff all behind you.

[CestDan]

You could probably be bisexual, but remember it's not sure. Anyway, you're the only one who can know about it.