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Harley Quinn
July 18th, 2009, 04:28 PM
Im new here and i was wondering if you could help me.my friend found my new cuts and she was really angry but she tpld someone else and now they are not talking to me and its getting me down i dont know what to do help!
ShinigamiMaiden
July 18th, 2009, 04:34 PM
Hello. Well maybe she wasn't much of a friend. Your much better off without friends like that. Don't worry about it too much. If people don't talk to you just because of that they arn't very much of a friend are they? Good friends would surrport you and help you through it like us. Maybe you should trying covering your cuts? I wear a sweatband all the time, or arm warmers and long sleves. It's now summer holidays, so you won't have to worry about it going around the school.
Viral Death
July 18th, 2009, 04:34 PM
I would talk to her and I think you should stop cutting! I know it is hard but you got my support!
Harley Quinn
July 18th, 2009, 04:37 PM
The thing is i do cover them but we were doing pe and my cuts are on my side and she touched them and cos they hurt i went ouch and yeah she found them.the girl is suppose to be my best friend anyways how is everything going wth you?
Viral Death
July 18th, 2009, 04:39 PM
Things are going ok but here you should read this you need to quit cutting!
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=48802
Harley Quinn
July 18th, 2009, 04:39 PM
Nice guy( sorry i dont know your name) i did but she is avoiding me and i have sort of stopped last time it was for about two months
Viral Death
July 18th, 2009, 04:42 PM
Maybe you should talk to her and just tell her that you are down are you are trying to stop. I would just talk to her and if she dont want anything to do with you then just get a better friend!
Thanks,
Nice_Guy
P.S. The name is Colton!
Edit: I would tell her you quit instead!!!
ShinigamiMaiden
July 18th, 2009, 04:46 PM
Hmmm...I think that you should get some friends that respect you.
Harley Quinn
July 18th, 2009, 04:50 PM
Coltan thanks i think i will follow your advice but i dont think it will work and my name is siobhan.luciilee and what pisses me off more is that they self harm toop
Viral Death
July 18th, 2009, 04:52 PM
Tell them they are no better than you! And you need to find better friends.
P.S. You spelt my name wrong its Colton! Lol
ShinigamiMaiden
July 18th, 2009, 04:53 PM
Wow they are some shite friends. They are stupid twats who are no better then anybody else. You should tell them that. They are bad people who don not deserve your friendship.
Harley Quinn
July 18th, 2009, 04:54 PM
Soz colton lol and they have like stopped so i cant really say anything
Harley Quinn
July 18th, 2009, 04:56 PM
Thanks your right but something tells me that they will help me
ShinigamiMaiden
July 18th, 2009, 04:57 PM
I think you guys all just need to settle down and talk about this and tell them that your trying to stop. They should understand.
Harley Quinn
July 18th, 2009, 04:58 PM
Yeah i guess i talk to them on monday
Viral Death
July 18th, 2009, 04:59 PM
I think you guys all just need to settle down and talk about this and tell them that your trying to stop. They should understand.
Good advice! +1 Rep!
dstnyisurs
July 18th, 2009, 07:56 PM
She probably doesn't know how sad you really are. I would talk to her and tell her that she really hurt you by not acting like a friend should. She probably doesn't know how to handle the fact that you are cutting. If she refuses to talk to you, then I would just give her some space and wait until she's ready to confront the issue. I'm sure she's just ignorant to the realness of your issue and doesn't know how to react to you.
Harley Quinn
July 18th, 2009, 08:05 PM
Yeah but it been like 2 weeks now and she cuts herself so i dont really understand her .like me and her are not even that close as in she dont know alot about me but we have been friends for ages and its all cos of my other friend telling her
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