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Bananaaax
July 18th, 2009, 07:16 AM
This message is important. Don't look on it with scorn and negative thoughts, because you must see it for what it really is.

This is a message of love! Trust me, I'm here to HELP.

Often in life we have periods where we feel awful, like our hearts are breaking, like we are truly alone and like nobody will ever be able to understand what we are going through. This happends to EVERYONE, so please please please don't ever feel that it's just you and no one understands... There are 6 billion people in this world... The majority can relate to what you are going through.
You are not alone!

Remember that there are people out there that love you, people that don't even know you very well that love you, and people that don't even know you at all that do love you. I love every single one of you and I've realised, that to give people the kindness they need to get through those awful moments, there isn't much I wouldn't do anymore. I WILL help, the best I can. I WILL give you support that you may need to take that leap to change for the better if need be.
No I am not a miracle worker, and I can't make all your problems just disappear in a flash... But I can listen and share your problems.

Remember, a problem shared is a problem halved.

I don't want to make anyone feel that their difficulties are something small and insignificant. No suffering is small or insignificant. But if you remember that you are not alone and that people DO care, There isn't anything in life that you cannot overcome <3.

Again, please don't ever feel that you're alone. You're on a great forum where people do want to help you, it's their jobs to support you...
They will listen. Trust them.

A wise person once said "Love yourself first, and everything else will fall into place." No need to waste time and getting ill by worrying about what others think of/about you... Showing that you have your best intentions at heart will show other that you have the confidence to carry yourself... Something which is respected in the world.

This doesn't mean you have to like the way you look, or like anything that you do infact. Just accept that you are a person trying to make your way through life, just as everyone else does. You're unique... You're the only one of you in the world... Why waste time thinking that you're not good enough for the world? Heck the world is soooooo lucky to have someone like yourself within it.

I don't know if this will help or not, but I'm sure I'm not the only person who feels this way. Your life is so precious! Contemplate how beautiful the world is in spite of some of the bad things, think of all the things you enjoy, and the smiles of other people. Think of those who want to be like you.

And if anyone feels really low, come and talk to myself or one of the Counselors! We will cheer you up and send you e-hugs. As well as much support you need to help you get through the tough times.

You deserve to be happy, and you deserve to feel good. Nobody deserves to suffer. Suffering can make you bitter if you let it take you over, and that is a fact. We will try our hardest to ensure that you don't leave this forum feeling low and upset... And I am trying my hardest here to make sure you don't leave this topic without feeling great about yourselves!!! =D

Things do happen... It's life. The key is to make sure that the bad things aren't the things that you focus on. Your positive vibe WILL inspire others just like you to get help. It's a cycle that will help eventually spread around to everyone... Keep it going!!!!!

So yes! Everyone! Feel the love and SPREAD it. Friends of depressive people? Give them every single bit of kindness you have, no matter even if they appear to be making themselves worse, because it is worth it.

Let yourself crowdsurf through life when times are bad.


Lots and lots of love from your highly emotional FRIEND!!! <3


There is nothing more sad then a beautiful angel with a brused ego.
Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets.
So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't and believe that everything happens for a reason.
If you get a chance, take it.
If it changes your life, let it.
Nobody said that it'd be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.

(Don't say I didn't warn you!!!)

Holding On*
July 18th, 2009, 08:58 AM
I love you too Lananananana :) Lots ! :D
hehe.

But seriously. Great thread. Sticky?

Bananaaax
July 18th, 2009, 12:26 PM
<333

Triceratops
July 18th, 2009, 03:03 PM
:hug2:

This thread is precious, it brought a tear to my eye.
You are amazing!<3
We all love you here. :)

Have some rep +1

Zazu
July 18th, 2009, 06:03 PM
This is amazing, quite simply amazing, needs to be stickied imo :)

Bananaaax
July 18th, 2009, 07:09 PM
i added a little bit at the end that I remembered, which I thought went well here too :)

itsandrew_
July 18th, 2009, 07:24 PM
this thread should be a sticky. when I read threads and posts like this it makes me happy and undepressed. expecialy after what happend. (read my thread called ....) thankies Lana for makeing this thread.

Viral Death
July 18th, 2009, 11:13 PM
I think it needs to be sticked! +1 Rep!

Bougainvillea
July 19th, 2009, 01:29 AM
LanaBanana is pretty amazing. And for this post deserves the highest respect.

Neverender
July 19th, 2009, 02:47 AM
This post helped a bit. Just to know people care about me helps.

+Rep.

:hug:

Sunshine Girl
July 19th, 2009, 03:39 AM
"We will cheer you up and send you e-hugs."

love that part! lol
your awesome :)

Triceratops
July 19th, 2009, 05:38 AM
Just a friendly reminder - as wonderful as this thread is, it is not going to be stickied.

If we sticky these types of threads then this will cause other members to want to follow and create threads exactly like this, and then wonder why their threads aren't being stickied as well.

No more requests for making this into a sticky. Thanks.

~Marshki Cyanide

Θάνατος
July 19th, 2009, 06:55 AM
Very good thread. Thanks for showing that you care.

It doesn't matter if this get stickied it will be a very important and well looked at thread.

Very good job on it.

yes + rep

Gumleaf
July 19th, 2009, 07:21 AM
thats a very good post lana. i wish i believed all that for myself, but often i don't.

BlackenedSilver
July 19th, 2009, 08:19 AM
Wow Lana! Amazing thread!
<3 Made me smile so much.
+rep

Bananaaax
July 19th, 2009, 01:04 PM
Thank you all for the comments and the +rep
i just want to help everyone feel happy

I hope I did it >_<
Makes me feel better when others feel great about themselves <3333

Bananaaax
July 27th, 2009, 05:42 AM
bump =x

Project Delta
July 27th, 2009, 07:18 AM
+ rep

damn almonds
July 27th, 2009, 09:25 AM
well i got advice. even though telling someone ur depression didnt work for ME- it mite work for YOU. we got the whole psych ward here, so do what i did and post it. u mite feel better. :) if not, join the party. i'm waiting here with MILLIONS of other people just like us- there are really people out there like you.... believe it. the world is big, its very very possible for millions.

OR HERE, lookie: i usully worry a lot either in the morning or at night, so if ur in bed, go to sleep and maybe u can have a happy dream.....

dstnyisurs
July 27th, 2009, 10:53 PM
Someone stick this girl, please! (: -plasters sticky note on your forehead-
This post made me smile. You're so nice. (=<3

Waiting
August 2nd, 2009, 07:18 PM
lana,
i dont know you very well,
but thank you x

CestDan
August 4th, 2009, 07:13 PM
I really want to say: THANK YOU!!! Those are words of a wise person, a person who know the meaning of live, but most importantly, the meaning of the word LOVE. I'm very glad for Bananaaax's message. Remember that life is the greatest gift and we have to live it as happy as we can. XD >.< :)

Silent
August 7th, 2009, 07:25 PM
This is great! im mean wow! I got a tear :D + rep for you!

Bougainvillea
August 7th, 2009, 07:39 PM
I think we can all agree, Lana's the most amazing girl on VT. :P

Bananaaax
August 9th, 2009, 01:14 PM
You're so sweet <3
I love you all =] And I'm glad I've made people happy <3333333