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naruus
July 17th, 2009, 07:30 PM
Hello, Im 16 and I am currently in a state on which I need peoples help..

About two years ago, me and two other MALE friends experimented at a sleepover J/Off in each others bedrooms and stuff, nothing too bad, I would not get aroused by them or anything along those lines.. Then one day, one of my friends tried sucking me off, I didn't move or anything but I wasn't telling him to stop, it felt very good to say the least, and he tried to sneak a finger into an unwanted territory (yeah... There) I quickly said stop and said 'No, that'd be a bit gay.' He agreed and stopped touching me instantly. From that day on I've always been bi-curious e.t.c and wondered what itd be like to have gone that bit further with this guy..

However, in high school I met this girl, April, after a while I felt love, I loved her so much and to this day still do, I get butterflies whenever I see her and I get the urge to protect her, I have wanted to have sex with her and Im pretty sure that if I asked her, she would go out with me and have sex with me..

I am telling you this mainly for self relief, to get it off my chest, however, there will always be this bit of 'Corruption' inside my mind, I want to know what it would be like to do things to a guy, this is why Im not sure whether Im gay or not, or even bisexual, If ever I think a guy is slightly 'hot' he will always have a womenly figure, however, April is always gonna be my love, I will always want to try things, I am wondering, because I dont know what its like to have a girl do anything with me, however I know what its like to have a guy do something..

Please help
Silent
July 17th, 2009, 08:24 PM
No your not gay.

why?
It common to experiment with the same sex.

The feelings you get from seeing this girl proves your not striaght up gay.
Now you could be bi....but if you just like to experiment with the same sex then its ok. Lotssssssssssssss of people do it. I do.

You have nothing to worry about.
guacamole24
July 17th, 2009, 10:34 PM
No your not gay.

why?
It common to experiment with the same sex.

The feelings you get from seeing this girl proves your not striaght up gay.
Now you could be bi....but if you just like to experiment with the same sex then its ok. Lotssssssssssssss of people do it. I do.

You have nothing to worry about.

Yes... I agree.
Oscarisme
July 18th, 2009, 01:07 AM
I dont think your gay at alll.
Yooh may be bi,,But ONCE AGAIn it depends if your emotionally attracted. Sooo its probably just hormones(The usual)
Truth
July 18th, 2009, 02:16 AM
You could be BI, but do you want to date men, do you want to do it with them? Other wise.. you're not gay. =/ So i doubt you are, no worries.

However, in high school I met this girl, April, after a while I felt love, I loved her so much and to this day still do, I get butterflies whenever I see her and I get the urge to protect her, I have wanted to have sex with her and Im pretty sure that if I asked her, she would go out with me and have sex with me.. Dude, a girl isn't just for sex. Don't like a girl just for sex.
mr.sexy_bomb
July 18th, 2009, 02:18 AM
your not gay and its normal to do things with outher guys when you are a teen
nick
July 18th, 2009, 06:08 AM
Like the others have said, your feelings for the girl show that you're not gay, but you could possibly be bi.
Perseus
July 18th, 2009, 01:13 PM
*Sigh..*
You're not gay. If you get a handjob or blowjob from a guy or a girl, it feels the same. The gender of the person doesn't change the feeling. You either like it or not. Plenty of teens experiment, and who cares if you're gay? You obviously like a girl, if anything you could be bi, but who cares?
MichaelAdams1993
July 18th, 2009, 01:13 PM
...it depends if your emotionally attracted. Sooo its probably just hormones(The usual)

Exactly! In order to be gay or bi you would have to have both and physical (which already seem to have) AND emotional attraction to guys. From the sounds of it though you are both physically and emotionaly attracted to gilrs and the physical attraction to guys is simply your hormones telling you that your a teen and your horny.
chris__batman
July 19th, 2009, 09:33 PM
What you have to be sure of is that if you do want to experiment with other guys, that your not in a relationship with this girl. To be unfaithfull would be one of the worst things that you could do.

So decide on what you want, and go for it.
mosaic.
July 19th, 2009, 10:34 PM
I think you're bi. You're attracted to both males and females.
YourFriend
July 24th, 2009, 04:10 PM
Yes, you could be bi, or str8 and curious.
DTeen
July 26th, 2009, 06:09 AM
I think that you are straight but curious