Help with a desicion...

[justanotherdude01]

Well I've been going out with this girl for ten months now and we've had a pretty great relationship. She's funny, caring, and beautiful but as of late I've been havin thoughts about our relationship. See, in the past couple of months the relationship has become strongly based off of sexual activities. Dont get me wrong, I love anything sexual as much as the next guy but I really dont want it to be just based on that. I've told her about this and we calmed down for a while but a couple weeks later we were just right back to it. And now that I havent seen her for 2 months (vacations) I'm beginning to think about other girls. I just dont want to hurt my current gf by taking things to far and having our relationship end. Please comments or suggestions for what to do would be helpful. :)

[IAMWILL]

Your body's into it, but you aren't. Of course all human teenagers just want loads of sex and connection in a relationship, well, most younger teenagers. And im not trying to say that in a stereotypical way, its the hormones that actually makes your body and mind seem to crave sexual activities. You just aren't in a really good relationship, and you're finally starting to realize that. I wouldn't break up though, just try limiting the sexual activities more and going and doing things that take you two's minds off sex and stuff. That will help you connect more, and connection is key.

[kyle95]

talk to her mate. sex is a very intimate gift you give one another. if she truly loves you, she's having sex with you because she cares about you. walking out on her like this and for no good cause is just plain wrong and heartless mate. she's done nothing to deserve this treatment

[justanotherdude01]

Im sorry when i said it i didnt mean sex. The farthest we have gone is mutual touching (everything under oral bases). But if that doesnt change ur decisons then thanks for the advice. just wanted to clear that up before others may post.

[kyle95]

nothing changes mate, these are intimate acts which i'm sure you or she don't share with anyone else. my pleasure. hope it works out for you