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The Boy Genius
July 17th, 2009, 12:07 AM
Ok every one prepare yourself for this one because it really werid. I live in Australia and have been recently traviling around the us because my moms American so I have family and friends over there. Any way I was at my life long friends house she is a girl so we have always been a bit ackward. So we get on amazingly well like we just click. We talked for 5 hours straight and we were happy. She is beautiful and lovely. As you can probly tell I am head over healls for her. Too make it worse we sharred a room in her house and I caught a glimpse of her nacked so I have no idea what to do. Now I am really confussed what the hell do I do
drpepper21
July 17th, 2009, 01:08 AM
if you clicked, go for it.
Gumleaf
July 17th, 2009, 01:10 AM
moving - general puberty >>> relationships & dating
The Boy Genius
July 17th, 2009, 08:08 AM
She has a boyfriend

EDIT: I am back in Australia so no chance now

Please use the "edit" button. ~ UntamedWolf
byee
July 17th, 2009, 09:57 AM
I'm not exactly sure what the q here is. Seeing her naked is arousing, it eroticizes the relationship, and I suppose you have to deal with that, privately, since you don't have that sort of relationship.

What you DO have, is a 'life long' friend who you love a lot. There are many kinds of friends and many levels of feelings about someone. You can simply adore someone and be 'head over heels', esp. if there's a new and very powerful part (the erotic), yet not necessarily change things outwardly. It can enrichen the emotional attachment and friendship, you can 'feel' closer to her, and enjoy that and feel even more fulfilled than you did before.

Besides, 'Going out', however intense, isn't forever. Friendship can be.
kyle95
July 17th, 2009, 06:36 PM
it's not like you were hiding and sneaking a peek. it's all right mate. you've done nothing wrong, but it certainly isn't the right time to tell her either, you may run the risk of embarrassing her. it sounds like a dream, not a nightmare. relax and enjoy the time you have with her. be genuine and above all remain her best friend and don't do or say anything foolish.