Parents and Girlfriend :@

[CoolDude1]

I have been with this girl for over 1month and I didn't tell my parents because I know how they would react heres the story...

I am year 9 and my girlfriend is in year 7.


Soo my mum finds out I go out with her but not what year, and she was a bit :S anyways... mum told dad this morning about her, and my dad comes in and was saying who is she? how i know her? what year? when I said year 7, my mum and dad went mental, then dad said have I kissed her I said yes, then parents go loopy!

My Mum said... my sister wasnt allowed a boyfriend at my age, so neither can I have a girlfriend, also, she said I can get done for pedo when I cant coz I aint done nothing wrong. Now mums all like Dump her, I cant be with her, Im to young for relationships and I need to focus on my education.

What I want to know is..
How can I convince my parents that only 2 years difference is not that bad?
How I can tell my mum that I like her and I wont break up with her?
How to say Im resonsable?

Basically how to convince them to let me stay with her.

[nick]

I'm not sure what you can do to convince your parents.

For what its worth, my own view is that year 7 kids are a bit young, for non-UK people thats age 11-12, but if she's an old year 7 and you're a young 14 there could be less than 2 years between you so I dont see much wrong with that. However 11-12 is very young for any sexual activity so I hope you can stick to holding hands and perhaps a kiss for the time being.

I think thats the only way forward with your parents too, is to make clear that there's nothing sexual going on and to let them fell they can trust you in that department.

[IAMWILL]

Sorry to kinda burst your bubble....but as long as you live with your parents and your under 18 you are under there control, and they have all the right to say that you can't go out with her. It's really hard to respect your parents decision in these types of situations, especially when you're 14 and your hormones are still raging inside you, but you somewhat must obey. It sucks.

[kyle95]

mate, they are right, sorta. She's only 12. Why can't you just be friends instead of bf/gf?

[SapphireDragon13]

Maybe, just for now, the two of you could just be friends... and then later on, you can say that you're bf/gf again, when you're both old enough that your parents would be accepting of the two of you dating.

~Jenelle

[mr.sexy_bomb]

well she is kinda of young but then again is your life and if you like her then protect your relationship or get a new gf at your high school