fantasys

[underwearboy]

hi everyone this is my first post here so sorry if this is in the wrong place

okay here goes lol

lately i have been getting dreams and stuff and having fantasies about, um, being raped. i dont know at it is but i like the idea of it so much and it realy turns me on. i kno some people have these but the thing is they kind of worry me? shud i be worried and do u think its something that will pass like a phase?

Help please

[sildavin]

Umm, i can personally say I dont Think i've ever had a dream where i was being raped. But chances are, its just a phase ( i dont know how old you are) it could be a wet dream, it just just be that your hormones are raging and producing that kind of dream. Not to worry thought, they will most likely fade.

[Donkey]

Hm.

Everyone has their fetishes, and if that's what you want to fantasize about, that's fine. Just remember that rape is a very serious and distressing act and if it really happened to you, you wouldn't enjoy it.

[kdddd]

Yeah this dose happen to other people, because other people have talked to me about it. So its not that there is anything wrong with it, but this should NOT ever become a reality!!! Not only is it harmful physically to you but also emotionally so it would not be like what your dreams are!
So don't worry it is not unheard of to have these dreams but just careful!

[byee]

As long as you keep it in your head, it's fine, and it probably means nothing. Fantasies are harmless up there, and actually reduce stress, in moderation.

[Skeln]

Well people are always haveing fantasies and they're all different. Some people like this, some prefer that, it all depends on you and your personal prefrences. But yeah you are normal and it's just a phase caused by hormones.

[YourFriend]

Listen, during puberty your mind is also developing, so while you're sleeping, it's playing with you and that's why you dream it, and it turns you on because of hormones, and it may or may not pass as phase since it could be a fetish.

[amppi1236]

...if you dream about rape and get raped and you are happy with it... is it really rape!?

[Plisken_420]

...if you dream about rape and get raped and you are happy with it... is it really rape!?
Haha. you just killed my robot with that paradox

[nick]

Forgive me being so nosey, but I cant well wondering whether you mean anally raped or perhaps somehow being mounted by a girl. Even as a guy who really enjoys a bit of anal stimulation the prospect of being raped in that way is not something I could fantasize about. I would guess its a lot more common for a guy to have the odd idea about a girl climbing on top, but although that would be unlikely to be physically painful the mental harm would still be bad. So keep it as fantasy, and hope it doesnt become real.

[amppi1236]

Haha. you just killed my robot with that paradox
What robot?:confused::confused::confused::confused::what::what::what::what:

[yoyo]

stay away from people who might rape u and if ur parents find out u have those dreams there ganna go crazzy:yes::yes::yes:

[JackOfClubs]

Most people have fantasies. I personally don't fantasize about being raped, but whatever floats your boat.

[kyle95]

the fact that it's a fantasy and not a nightmare is cause enough to worry mate. adjust your fantasy before it leaves a permanent mark on you

[djunlogical]

It's nothing to worry about, loads of people do will or have, and dont listen to kyle, It will either be a phase and as long as you are being raped and you are not raping someone, you should be fine however, if you do feel the need or urge to rape someone that please do consult someone about it. Besides there are worse things, all it sound like is you like rough sex :)

[Giles]

...if you dream about rape and get raped and you are happy with it... is it really rape!?

ok i can see where your going with this... and its true to some extent... but,
Yes rape is where you are forced into having sex against your will, therefore if you wanted to be "raped" then it wouldnt technically be rape. But.. if you were "raped" very violently then wanted it to stop and it continued against your will then it would become rape... therefore the crime is still happening...

As for the OP's question...
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Its just your hormones... during puberty your hormone levels change rapidly, causing mental AND physical changes, whilst awake AND during dreams. so if your dreaming about getting raped... or w/e floats ur boat then ur completley normal... i wuld consider it weird to not fantasize about thigns.

[CestDan]

I think fantasies don't need to have a exact meaning. It's fine, I mean, they're just dreams.

[guacamole24]

Yeah, just make sure it doesn't give you the urge to rape anyone, or for anyone to rape you..... be careful. It's okay as long as its a fantasy or dream...