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dstnyisurs
July 15th, 2009, 10:54 PM
Delete.

chelsay13
July 16th, 2009, 12:02 AM
aww man Kyrra :(
I hate summer for the same reasons, but I've just been too lazy to head over to the razor. I know you can over come this :) i know it. You just need to find your inner strength. Get out of the house! go on walks or something. Get as far from your razor or whatever you cut with ASAP. You can pull through :)

oh, and make sure you clean out your cuts!! you do NOT want them infected.

MadManWithaBox
July 16th, 2009, 07:03 AM
you know i believe in you kyrra. i knw you can beat this, if i can you can. im not letting you lose control, im here for you, anytime between 8am - 4am, anytime. i believe in you sweetheart

Triceratops
July 16th, 2009, 08:47 AM
:hug3:
I'm sorry if I sound really generic here but you do have strength like the rest, what makes you less of a person than others? You are just as special. If they have control then so do you.

Just keep holding on, I know it's frustrating but the benefits and outcomes of it will be so worth it. When you have got through this rough part without harming yourself you will feel accomplished, and proud to say that you didn't give in to these destructive temptations.

Everyone has the will to stop harming themselves, no matter what anyone says. It's just a matter of pushing yourself and really putting in the effort. It is undoubtedly worth the hard work in the end. :)

In the mean time, try talking to a close friend or family member, or anyone you feel as if you can trust, for a sense of comfort and positivity for now.

I hope you feel better soon, and if you need anyone to talk to feel free to PM me.

dstnyisurs
July 16th, 2009, 10:42 AM
Delete.

byee
July 16th, 2009, 11:43 AM
Well, Kyrra, like my friend MMMMMarcie (who I might just as well call "Mona"), I'm going to give you a generic answer here: You need to take your own advice and do the Fandango and tell your parents what's going on with you, and show them your arms. Let them get you to a doctor who can help you understand why you need to hurt yourself and more importantly, find other ways of dealing with those issues.

Sometimes, we can address whatever is bothering us or causing us to do things that we instinctively know are not good for us and need to stop. Other times, we also realize it's bigger than that, and we need some outside help. From what you're describing, yours is one of those cases.

Tell your folks, get some help.

MadManWithaBox
July 16th, 2009, 04:18 PM
we're all here for you kyrra, its day one remember. take it slow, and IAMSAM is right, telling parents may be good step. entirely up to you though