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nannichick
March 3rd, 2006, 08:52 AM
okay so i like my best friend (chris) but i dont have the courage to tell him cuz we are so close and he is so sweet and i just dont want to ruin the brotherly love between us. i mean we always kid with eachother and we are always honest to eachother. what should i do.
Glasgow
March 3rd, 2006, 03:47 PM
I think you should tell him, because if you don't, the "guilt" will just nag at you, until you feel you have to tell him. So I advise you should tell him, just say I like you...and plus he could have already cloued on that you like him. So I advise you to tell him.
krzwis
March 3rd, 2006, 05:02 PM
yeah, just what ever you do...DO NOT start "stalking him" or acting all squishy when you tell him.
If anything comes from this, it'll be up to him if he wants to start something or not
nannichick
March 7th, 2006, 08:55 AM
thanks guys for the advice but i need more than that
ScotsGirl
March 7th, 2006, 08:54 PM
Has he ever done anything which might suggest that he likes you in the same way that you like him?
There are alot of pros and cons either way.
I dont know what kind of friendship you have but, how do you think he would react if you told him and he didnt feel the same? Do you think that would be worse than keeping things how they are and having to just hide your feelings?
You say that youre always honest with each other...does that include about how you feel towards each other, or has this never been an issue before?
Sorry for all the questions, you dont have to answer anything you dont want to! :D

:D
xxx
nannichick
March 15th, 2006, 08:30 AM
i guess cuz we always play around with eachother like yeah we go out and if he found out he wouldnt say anything bad about it but it would be akward for me this has never been an issue before but i decided that i will tell him how i feel
mike1
March 15th, 2006, 12:16 PM
just tell him the wors that could happen is that he can say i just want to be friends
fdsgfg55465
March 15th, 2006, 11:15 PM
I think you should tell him, because if you don't, the "guilt" will just nag at you, until you feel you have to tell him. So I advise you should tell him, just say I like you...and plus he could have already cloued on that you like him. So I advise you to tell him.