Afraid

[ViciousScheme]

I've just been boning up on my techniques for when I meet someone special next when I realize I think I don't have confidence. I guess I thought I did but whenever I talk to someone they're always saying that the guy leads in anything. I have never led because i'm always afraid of making her uncomfortable or she wouldn't like it and push me off. For all future reference, should I be the one to lead? I just thought it would be courteous to let the girl kiss when she felt comfortable. Am I doing it wrong? :confused:

[kyle95]

it depends on the situation mate. there's nothing wrong with being apprehensive. most girls can see through our actions. in certain circumstances you may lead, in others, just let things unfold, it's not a competition. there will be times when she may appreciate some initiative but not aggressive ones.

[tbboltz92]

I think it's awsome that u respect girls enough too give them that level of well respect

But sometimes you have to read the situation you know,if you girl seems like she's willing to kiss then go for it. Just read the situation go with your gut feeling. If she's says no then all well say sorry and hope she doesnt take it personally.

[electric_feel01]

I agree with everyone else! Depending on the feeling of the situation, just follow your instincts.

[XSceneQueenBabeX]

Yew should let her know that yew want to kiss her. But a lot of girls love when guys lead.