when is it right to marry???

[tiger17]

if u love somone and they love you after 6 months into a relationship do u think its right to marry rite away?? will it last forever??

[Antares]

Please place threads that you make in the appropriate forum.

Thank you.

[tbboltz92]

Well teenagers have a very skewed vision of love in my opinion. I had a friend date a girl for 18 months and they broke up. The point is teenagers really don't know what love is in my opinion. At least not the kind of love to get married. I think you should give it more time

[AutumnDae]

There are no guarantees in dating and love. Sometimes people seem so in love and then they get married, but it doesn't work out.

Some people don't do well in a marriage. For example, my uncle has been married once, and it didn't work out. He didn't like the sense of being tied down. His ex wife and him dated before they got married for years, but as soon as the marriage was over with, it wasn't the same for them. They dated afterwards for a while as well, but that didn't work out.

You can't say if things will last forever. Some people just aren't compatible. You might be SO in love with a girl now, but 2 years from now, nobody knows. When you ask someone for their hand in marriage, you're asking to basically know everything about them.

If you've been dating for six months, and you think you're ready, then maybe it's okay. However, (if you are talking about you) you ARE young. Young marriages don't always work out. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't.

But, if you are in this situation, why worry about getting married now? What's the rush? If you are SO in love with this girl, why not wait a while? If you plan on being with her for the rest of your live, why not date for a year or two? That way you get to know ALL the quirks of her, her likes and dislikes.

My mom has always said that you should really live with a person before you marry them as well. I agree with that...partially. I understand that some people don't believe in living together before marriage, but if it won't be breaking any rules, it might be a good idea. When you live with someone, you REALLY get to know them.

So yeah, what's the rush?

You can't say whether something is going to last forever. Maybe it will, maybe it will last 2 weeks. No one knows.

[AllThatIsLeft]

6 months is nothing... it takes Years! to figure out if you want to be with that person forever. and even then, it is not certain.

after 6 months you cant not be sure.

[kyle95]

i doubt it is mate. you're basing your future on a few months? i would say focus on your relationship day by day and work on the problem areas and enjoy the times you spend together. somehow, i suppose, you'll eventually know if she's the one you'd want to spend your life with. it's rather exciting mate :)

[electric_feel01]

It takes awhile to truly know if you love someone or not! You should wait it out and see how much further your relationship goes! Especially after only 6 months, you really can't know a person enough to honestly decide if you can live the rest of your life with them or not.

[tiger17]

Untamedwolf has the perfect answer!!!....thats exactly what i agree with...great job!!!!