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[Giles]

:Ok, i know theres been loads of posts like this but as far as im aware there isnt one with this exact question... heres the situation.

In the changing rooms at my school theres showers round the corner from the main room, with all the benches and stuff. Today it was sports day so there were loads of younger people in the changing rooms with us... I couldnt help but look at loads of younger people and their bulges,hair,muscles etc.
Afterwards (^^ that was all before the actual lesson) i got changed extra slow because all the year 7-8s ( thats 7-8th grade for americans i think) were waiting for the older ones to go out.
When they came in they all went in the shower, so i went in too. Wat i didnt know was tht they went in naked... i was wearing boxers cos i never go naked in school.

M question : was it really wrong for me to look at people younger than me?? they were like 10-12 and im almost 14.

[shanno06]

Hi,

Its perfectly normal to be checking out how other people are progressing in comparison to yourself.
12 Year Olds is ok but 10 year olds is a tiny bit young as most have them probably have not entered puberty yet so you should not be worrying about them.

Dont feel bad about it though as I said before its perfectly normal.

Hope this Helps

[YourFriend]

It isn't wrong, it's just hormones. You can't really fight them.

[Donkey]

It is somewhat perverted really. Just being honest. You have to know where there is a limit on how far you let your hormones take control of you. Checking out other younger kids crosses the line, especially since they were waiting for the older people to go out. The changing rooms are for changing, not checking people out.

[zacset]

^ I don't think that's a fair comment, He was just looking out of curiosity like most of us have done. He didn't touch anyone and they're only a year or two younger. I don't see any problem with it and I would probably of done the same.

[twotall]

yea there is no prob with it. they are still around your age 2

[Donkey]

^ I don't think that's a fair comment, He was just looking out of curiosity like most of us have done. He didn't touch anyone and they're only a year or two younger. I don't see any problem with it and I would probably of done the same.
I wouldn't feel comfortable been looked at by an older guy, and I think it's unfair to put someone into that position.

Some of us aren't so wrapped up in masturbation and thinking about sex that we can think morally instead of thinking with our penises.

[jismopper]

For me I can't imagine looking at anyone pre-puberty, I think you're ok.

[Donkey]

Another note, don't keep the habit up.

It'll become weirder and weirder and eventually you'll become a paedophile. Keep to the 2/3 years limit, don't carry on looking at kids when you're an adult.

[Giles]

Another note, don't keep the habit up.

It'll become weirder and weirder and eventually you'll become a paedophile. Keep to the 2/3 years limit, don't carry on looking at kids when you're an adult.
Um... i wasnt planning on it. besides by the time i am an adult i wont have the "urge" to look anyway. considering i was just curious if they had any hair and such things.

I wouldn't feel comfortable been looked at by an older guy, and I think it's unfair to put someone into that position.

Some of us aren't so wrapped up in masturbation and thinking about sex that we can think morally instead of thinking with our penises.

It had nothing to do with sex or masturbation... i woud never consider doing anything like that with people younger than me... especially when some of them hadnt even started puberty (in my opinion).
Also im pretty sure they didnt see me because it wasnt as if i was the only older person there(and looking, i could see the others lookin too) ... ther was like 4/5 of us.

[Donkey]

Um... i wasnt planning on it. besides by the time i am an adult i wont have the "urge" to look anyway. considering i was just curious if they had any hair and such things.



It had nothing to do with sex or masturbation... i woud never consider doing anything like that with people younger than me... especially when some of them hadnt even started puberty (in my opinion).
Also im pretty sure they didnt see me because it wasnt as if i was the only older person there(and looking, i could see the others lookin too) ... ther was like 4/5 of us.
You've missed my point. You're arguing with me when you asked for opinions(?)

But yeah. Just because you're an adult, it doesn't mean that any sexual attraction to children will go away. Especially if you've made a habit of it when you're younger, so just be careful. Was the point. Not saying you're going to do anything.

What I meant by sex and masturbation is basically hormones. We don't all have hormones control us like they seem to be doing them to you. As I explained, there is a limit.

It doesn't matter if they saw or not, I'm saying it's morally wrong and not something that anyone should be doing. You're supposed to set an example to those younger children, not watch them shower naked.

You asked us if we thought it was wrong.

I think it's wrong.

[Skeln]

I agree with Jon. Looking at kids that are that much younger than you is a littleperverted. Guys our own age that's different because we're more temped to just to see how we're progressing compared to them. But younger...like at 10 and 12 well many of those kids haven't hit puberty yet so looking at them wouldn't help you compare at all and I find that just wrong. I just suggest you don't look at younger dudes who haven't hit puberty unless your in a situation where you don't have any other choice.

[Giles]

You've missed my point. You're arguing with me when you asked for opinions(?)

But yeah. Just because you're an adult, it doesn't mean that any sexual attraction to children will go away. Especially if you've made a habit of it when you're younger, so just be careful. Was the point. Not saying you're going to do anything.

What I meant by sex and masturbation is basically hormones. We don't all have hormones control us like they seem to be doing them to you. As I explained, there is a limit.

It doesn't matter if they saw or not, I'm saying it's morally wrong and not something that anyone should be doing. You're supposed to set an example to those younger children, not watch them shower naked.

You asked us if we thought it was wrong.

I think it's wrong.

To be fair it isnt a "sexual attraction" i'm was just curious as to whether they had hit puberty yet... fair enough most of them hadnt. I thought that because they were like at the max 2 years younger that it wasnt that bad.

I'm sure that most people have seen younger people naked... whether intentionally or not, but i bet they didnt look away.

[Donkey]

To be fair it isnt a "sexual attraction" i'm was just curious as to whether they had hit puberty yet... fair enough most of them hadnt. I thought that because they were like at the max 2 years younger that it wasnt that bad.

I'm sure that most people have seen younger people naked... whether intentionally or not, but i bet they didnt look away.
Yes, I've seen younger people naked. Have I set out to see young people naked? No.

It isn't your job to inspect who's going through puberty or not, so just stick to the VT surveys where people give their input rather than taking it from them.

[Giles]

Yes, I've seen younger people naked. Have I set out to see young people naked? No.

It isn't your job to inspect who's going through puberty or not, so just stick to the VT surveys where people give their input rather than taking it from them.

whats with the harsh replies??

I didnt set out to see younger people naked... i didnt wake up this morning and think... "hmmm i wanna see little kiddies dicks today", the oppurtunity arose to see another males cock i took it because i was curious.

The vt surveys hardly compare to actually seeing the things... theres some questions that cant be asked in writing.

[nick]

I wish you two guys would cool it, this is turning into a war.

Benmullet you made things worse initially by mentioning age 10, there are no 10 year olds in year 7 unless they've been promoted a year.

To be honest if you peeked at a few 12yr olds in the shower's when you're only just 14, some of them will be only just over a year younger than you, I don't think that's the crime of the century. If you find it becoming a habit or that you are seeking opportunities to repeat the experience then it could become a problem.

[Donkey]

whats with the harsh replies??

I didnt set out to see younger people naked... i didnt wake up this morning and think... "hmmm i wanna see little kiddies dicks today", the oppurtunity arose to see another males cock i took it because i was curious.

The vt surveys hardly compare to actually seeing the things... theres some questions that cant be asked in writing.
So why not find pictures of male penises online instead of looking at younger children's?

Doesn't really add up. I'm sure lots of those boys would dislike you looking at their penises. I consider it an invasion of privacy.

[Giles]

oh come on... are you jokin or just being akward??
you cant find pictures or say 14 yr olds cocks on the internet... if you coculd i'd be first there to compare... fair enough lookin at 11-13 yr olds isnt really comparing... but still...

Even if it is an invasion of privacy. its just the age thing thats the problem.. if they were say 14-15 thered be no problem. i know that.

[Donkey]

oh come on... are you jokin or just being akward??
you cant find pictures or say 14 yr olds cocks on the internet... if you coculd i'd be first there to compare... fair enough lookin at 11-13 yr olds isnt really comparing... but still...

Even if it is an invasion of privacy. its just the age thing thats the problem.. if they were say 14-15 thered be no problem. i know that.
I wasn't talking about young children.

You know, adults have penises too? Compare with those pictures instead of peeking at 10 year olds.

[Giles]

I wish you two guys would cool it, this is turning into a war.

Benmullet you made things worse initially by mentioning age 10, there are no 10 year olds in year 7 unless they've been promoted a year.

To be honest if you peeked at a few 12yr olds in the shower's when you're only just 14, some of them will be only just over a year younger than you, I don't think that's the crime of the century. If you find it becoming a habit or that you are seeking opportunities to repeat the experience then it could become a problem.

sorry i didnt see ur post...

Um i dont really know the ages of yr 7's i thought it was like 10-12??

[Giles]

I wasn't talking about young children.

You know, adults have penises too? Compare with those pictures instead of peeking at 10 year olds.

compare with adults? thats not comparing... that looking at pictures of adults penises.. i'd say comparing was looking at people ROUGHLY your age. not drastically older.

[Donkey]

compare with young boys? thats not comparing... that looking at young boys penises.. i'd say comparing was looking at people ROUGHLY your age. not 10y/o's who haven't even entered puberty.

[Giles]

I stress the word "ROUGHLY" as in within a few years... i'd say 10. ( which nick has proven to be too young anyway so lets say 11) thats 3 years difference which i'd say is roughly... not 20+.

[Donkey]

Adults is 18+, not 20+.

As you said these kids hadn't even entered puberty, what use is it comparing? Or comparing at all really. Your penis is fine. Nothing to worry about.

[Giles]

i find that comparing reassures me that im normal... even if it is with people that havent entered puberty... (i feel that i should say at this point that a couple of them obviously had so i did have some "success" comparing).

18+... 20+ 2 years difference stop being picky.

[BlackenedSilver]

I think the OP has everything he needs. and this is getting a bit heated.

Locked.