is it gay

[twotall]

is it gay to j/o with a friend? imthinking of stoping it to a point should i?

[Giles]

try reading the other 50-odd posts... and you'll get the same answer every time...

1.some people believe that its wrong.
2.others think that its fine as long as the age difference isnt too big.
3.some think that its ine as long as both people agree.

I think that its fine as long as you both agree... your not miles apart (age wise) and your sure it wont destroy your friendshit... but overall i'd say its not gay.

EDIT: I just realised that i completley missed the question... ^ that could help so i'll leave it there.
Erm it could be teen hormones... it could be that you are gay... or it could be that you are just curious.

[guacamole24]

It could be, or it could just be hormones.

[shanno06]

Its perfectly normal.
Most people dont know if they're gay until they're finished puberty as during puberty your hormones are wild and anything related to masturbation or sex gets any teen going

[YourFriend]

It could be gay, or it could be just having fun with your friend/s, if you are feeling uncomfortable with it, then stop, otherwise, don't 'cus it isn't gay as long as you aren't gay.

[Donkey]

Very normal. You'd be surprised just how many people do, it's not gay. It's called experimenting. Only do it if you're comfortable, otherwise there's no point..

[MichaelAdams1993]

Lots of guys do this and there is nothing wrong under four conditions:

1. The other person(s) agree(s) to it.
2. You and/or the other person(s) are not uncomfortable.
3. You and the other person(s) are not to far apart in age. Ex. if your 16 you shouldn't j/o with a friend that is 13, 14 might be okay but I would stick to one year on both sides of you.
4. J/o with each other will not cause problems in your friendship. Sexual tension is never a good thing and if this causes it then you shouldn't do it.

As long as you can meet these conditions I see reason to stop. Just make sure you do it at appropriate times and places as well.

[MykeSoBe]

Mutual masturbation without the add-ons isn't experimenting ... it's just masturbation. To be gay you have to have a desire to have a bonding physical relationship with another male. No sexual activity determines someone's orientation; in the case that any sexual activity besides masturbation would be considered "gay" by the general public, that's "experimentation" for you.

[IAMWILL]

Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

nope most people do it for just curiosity

[Bluearmy]

I am going to actually answer your question.

Mutual masturbation with someone of the same sex is a gay action. No way around that.

[nick]

Mutual masturbation with someone of the same sex is a gay action.
I dont agree with that.

twotall you havent made it clear whether you just do it at the same time as each other, in the same room, or if you help each other out. If you dont touch each other I cant see anything gay about that at all, its just 2 guys enjoying themselves in the same room, hell why not.

If you actually jerk each other its not so clear cut in my opinion, but lots of straight guys do this for fun and for curiousity, or just to do each other a favour because it feels good. Its only gay if there's a gay intention or gay feeling behind it. If you're doing it because you have feelings for each other then its gay.

[kyle95]

it's an intimate act mate, keep it to yourself

[Silent]

No its not gay.

why?
Its common to experiment with the same sex.

Lots of people do it. I do.












Mutual masturbation without the add-ons isn't experimenting ... it's just masturbation. To be gay you have to have a desire to have a bonding physical relationship with another male. No sexual activity determines someone's orientation; in the case that any sexual activity besides masturbation would be considered "gay" by the general public, that's "experimentation" for you.

This is exactly right.


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I am going to actually answer your question.

Mutual masturbation with someone of the same sex is a gay action. No way around that.

I strongly disagree.

------- Its common to experiment with the same sex.

Lots of people do it. -------

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it's an intimate act mate, keep it to yourself

Well maybe he is coming here to vent and just to understand on what to do/be educated so.......ya.

[DJthekid]

Its not gay its just hormones

[Noah_101]

no it can just be curiosity
ive done it several times

[polarbear]

nah it just fun

[Krafty]

No, its just good fun.

[JackOfClubs]

No its not gay. Its just experimenting. There have been literally hundreds of threads like this before :rolleyes:

[The Joker]

is it gay to j/o with a friend? imthinking of stoping it to a point should i?

I don't think you need to focus on whether it's gay or not. If you're questioning if you want to take it further or not, listen to that. It doesn't matter if it's gay, if you like it.

[ekul6159]

try reading the other 50-odd posts... and you'll get the same answer every time...

1.some people believe that its wrong.
2.others think that its fine as long as the age difference isnt too big.
3.some think that its ine as long as both people agree.

I think that its fine as long as you both agree... your not miles apart (age wise) and your sure it wont destroy your friendshit... but overall i'd say its not gay.

EDIT: I just realised that i completley missed the question... ^ that could help so i'll leave it there.
Erm it could be teen hormones... it could be that you are gay... or it could be that you are just curious.

That about sums it up!

[tripolar]

If you enjoy it do it, but if you want to stop go ahead.

[mosaic.]

Masturbating WITH a friend isn't really gay.

But if you masturbate him/touch his penis, then YES. It is gay.