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chelsay13
July 14th, 2009, 01:17 AM
Everyone always acts like they "know" why you're depressed.
Only those who cut understand, so when you're in need of someone to talk to, you need to find a fellow/past cutter.
Therapists always think they know who you are, and what you're like. But really, they don't know you. They don't understand.
When you post a topic anywhere else on this forum or another, people attack you [who don't cut] and act like they are superior, question you, or just call you stupid because you do it, when really, they are ignorant.
Or when your friends say they are there for you and they will never leave you. That you can trust them and everything with every little secret you tell them, but then they need to go turn around and tell someone? To the point where you don't talk to even your best friends about cutting or trying to stop?

Sorry, I just kinda needed to vent.

Truth
July 14th, 2009, 02:27 AM
Most cutters, past or present cutters, honestly have no idea what i feel like when im depressed, which is the majority of the time. Because, they obviously didn't cut for the reasons i did. No one knows you, like you do, and never will. Therapists, psychologists, are there just to give you drugs and send you to some one else.

Sapphire
July 14th, 2009, 03:29 AM
:hug3:
I hope venting helped!

And yes, I really hated it when that happened to me too.

dstnyisurs
July 14th, 2009, 12:08 PM
No one understands someone like they do.
It really is quite silly, I get the idea. Like no one's going to understand what I'm feeling because I can't possibly describe it to someone and make sense.
I hope you feel better. (: Vhenting = GOOD.

NightFighter
July 14th, 2009, 12:17 PM
Yep. Its especially hard when you yourself dont quite know why you are feeling depressed. When everything in life seems fine to the outsider but its not for some reason. After about 1.5 years i chose someone i trusted and 1. Acted like they understood 2. Told someone else 3. Patronized me about it and insisted on letting me show my cuts and if i didnt then that mean i didnt love them. I dont think i'll tell another person.