Lonely

[ViciousScheme]

So after dating a few times, and kissing a few times, I have come to realize i'm addicted to relationships. Every night before I go to bed, sometimes even in the middle of the day, I just want to be holding hands with someone, or talking with someone, or kissing someone. And now that i'm not with anyone, i'm miserable and lonely. And whenever I see a girl I think I might like, I step back and realize i'm being really desperate. Any cures that will hold me over until school starts again? And btw, patience isn't an option.:whoops:

[Blue63]

Well I know the feeling about constant loneliness, believe me I know. Now there really isn't a cure for it. Its just a feeling and you need to learn to be more rational a bit. You need to remember that a relationship isn't just kissing and holding hands, it's about an intimate connection with someone. You need to realize that you don't just want to be in a relationship with anyone just so you can be in a relationship, that would be demeaning the value of a relationship. Then when someone special came along, the relationship wouldn't be as meaningful. As far as getting it off your mind, try and hang out with your friends, get your mind off it. Pick up an extra hobby, channel all that energy of loneliness, desperation, and despair into something else, something productive. I know it's not going to be easy, so good luck. If you every need anyone to talk to, I'm here :)

[kyle95]

not quite mate, ur addicted 2 attention. b more giving, girls don't bite

[AllThatIsLeft]

Loneliness is awful. I would know.
The only true answer is copping.

Though it is hard, is the only way. Because you can't change it.
Just remember that someone comes along when you least expect it, and that's when you have to act.

WIsh you luck, as it is hard.

[Aves]

Keep it off you're mind, get a job, hang out with friends, read a book (lol i hate books :D). Do something just to keep you're mind off of it.

[twotall]

dude just find the right girl and you be all right but its not a drug thing u can do other things to get your mind off

[MyNameIsJack]

I understand and sometimes I feel like that too.
You should hang out with friends or read a book. When I'm feeling alone I like to go skateboarding and at the end I feel a lot better.
Try not to think to much about that.

[Never_Forget]

"The only way to get away from loneliness is to love it."

You just need to wait for the perfect girl to come along. I know you said patience isn't an option, but apart from asking someone out, it's the only thing left.