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DADA Witch
March 2nd, 2006, 05:00 PM
Myself and my ex, decided to stop going together around July, the third. Yes, quite pathetic that I remember when we stopped, but anyhow. Obviously, that was a while ago..But I still can't move on. I do reliaze, that I probably look extremely stupid for not moving on, or not being able to get my thoughts off him, but..it's hard.

I feel trapped for some reason. I mean, I recently found out..he now has a girlfriend, and me, I have no one. I feel..like I should have someone. I feel that..because I don't have a boyfriend, he may think that..I'm not over him, and that I'm still in love with him.. Agh. Being a teen is hard.

Anyways, I guess..I just really want to know what everyone thinks about this... I mean..I don't believe I'm obessed, but..it hurts to know he moved on..and it looks like I haven't...

I believe..I'm more or less heartbroken, because he was my first, real boyfriend, and we went together for over a year and a half. -shrugs-

...I'm just..alone.

Ravenous
March 2nd, 2006, 05:17 PM
Well he has definately moved on, and you need to do the same. What you had, it looks like it is over. Make a new start, head for a new relationship if you like, or stay single for a bit longer.

kim46
March 2nd, 2006, 05:19 PM
you should try your hardest to move on..don't spend to long waiting for him when he has moved on....but if you really still love him maybe you can talk to him (when he brakes up with his current girlfriend)

DADA Witch
March 2nd, 2006, 05:36 PM
I do understand that I need to move on..I just believe it's hard to do.

Lol. I'm dragging this break-up on..and it doesn't need to be.

A best mate of mine told me..I need to grow up, and I guess, I should take that advice.

Thank you, you guys.

krzwis
March 2nd, 2006, 07:37 PM
never easy to move on...

try distracting yourself, it'll help

study more, join a sport, etc