this love this hate

[mdawg27]

well everyone. i need some major help. i was with this girl for a total of about a year. she has like 5 guys liking her now, and im one of them. im still her bestfriend and she still wants to be mine. she also doesnt mind if i still kiss her. and these guys that like her want to hangout and shes scared she'll makeout with all of them. with me, she knows its going to happen but shes not scared. ugh i love this girl with all my heart. i do good for a few days then i just freak out pretty much and i cant stop till the days over about how much i love her. i have a really strong mind yet my hearts so weak. im not sure what to do right now i just need some advice

[Fiending_the_freedom]

shes scared she will make out with all of them?
sorry, does she not have this thing called self control?
its not exactly hard NOT to make out with someone, let alone 5 guys,
if she doesn't want to, then she wont.

[IAMWILL]

You say you have a weak heart, but strong mind. I believe the contrary. If you care for this girl to such an extent, and she likes you back, why frett so badly over the thought of her doing things with other guys? Your mind is the weak one here, because you don't trust her, or yourself as it seems, and no healthy relationship doesn't involve an unsurpassed amount of trust. You need to simply talk with her and tell her how you feel. She will accept this and understand it, and she should be mature enough to have some self control around other guys. If not, I don't believe she's the one for you.

[Aves]

OK, you need to man up, go out there and get the girl. Make sure she likes you, and just go for it. Worse comes to worse you stay best friends.

[kyle95]

reason over passion mate. u don't have a strong mind if u can't control ur heart. she's ur friend, not ur wife or lover. she needs space and time 2 decide who she would like 2 b with, if any of you 5 at all. there could be another chap on the horizon. if ur truly her friend, quit freaking out and respect her independence and support her decision no matter how personally painful it may be.