Guy wont stop asking to masturbate

[orangecounty]

I have this "friend" who went to my high school (I just graduated) who has asked me nonstop to jack off with him. Like for weeks now, he won't give it up. I say no every time he asks. He came to my house one day...alone...and I kind of pretended I wasn't there because I knew what he was going to ask. I really do not want to jack off with him...I have no interest. He won't back off, however, and I don't know what to do. He has a lot of "social power" if you know what I mean and he can turn people against me (and already has started with one of my friends). Should I just do it, even though I have no interest, or what? I am really stumped on this one.

[Zazu]

If you don't want to masturbate with him, tell him "NO" very firmly. He has no right to keep asking you again and again to masturbate with him, he can't make you.

If he won't leave you alone, talk to a teacher / one of your friends / the police about it. I'm sure he could be warned with some form of harassment if he won't leave you alone.

[JackOfClubs]

Ya, just firmly tell him NO. If it was me, and he kept bugging me for a good while, I'd give him a good hard kick in the balls :D. Then he won't use them for a while :)

[guacamole24]

Yeah, he can't make you do something sexual you don't want to. That's basically sexual harassment. And I hope he doesn't try to turn people against you...

[Atonement]

You have three options.

A. Give in. Whack off with him. But, if you do it this time, he will most likely want more and more.

B. Very firmly say no and tell him to stop asking immediately or there will be severe consequences.

C. The sever consequence. Charge him with sexual harassment.

[johnzzy]

tell him no then if he persists stop being friends with him

[James18]

1. Do NOT give in. It won't end there.

2. I'd get in his face, like seriously, give him a good dressing down (pardon the pun). You've gotta get this guy's attention, and let him know that he's putting your relationship on the line.

3. I wouldn't go with the sexual harassment charges, because one, I think he's just a horny kid who can't contain himself, two it'd get dragged into public and probably be embarrassing for even you, and three, you'd ruin his life potentially.

I'd go with #2 all the way.

[Donkey]

Threaten him with telling the police to charge him with sexual harassment, explain that you wouldn't want to but you are really fed up of it.

[MichaelAdams1993]

Simply tell him that you don't want to and that if he can't accept that then maybe he should find some other friends.

[Skeln]

As the others said just say "NO". If he keeps this up then I do suggest you tell someone about this. This is sexual harassment and I don't think you should hang around him at all if he persist. You might even want to tell your parents to just have him go home if he comes over again or something so that way he wont end up at your house to ask. As for him turing peope against you, especially your friend, then you can just tell them the reason for him turning people against you. It's honest and if your friends are truely your friends then they will listen to you.

[ThUnDeR]

no just say NO!!! and tell him to BACK off .....or youull kick his ass lol

[charlie w]

like everyone here has said, say no to him the next time he asks because if you do give in and jack off with him he will just come back for more. if he keeps on coming, threaten him with telling someone.

[MichaelAdams1993]

no just say NO!!! and tell him to BACK off .....or youull kick his ass lol

Just for clarification, you should never resort to violence.

[blingibong]

I have this "friend" who went to my high school (I just graduated) who has asked me nonstop to jack off with him. Like for weeks now, he won't give it up. I say no every time he asks. He came to my house one day...alone...and I kind of pretended I wasn't there because I knew what he was going to ask. I really do not want to jack off with him...I have no interest. He won't back off, however, and I don't know what to do. He has a lot of "social power" if you know what I mean and he can turn people against me (and already has started with one of my friends). Should I just do it, even though I have no interest, or what? I am really stumped on this one.

the best thing to do is... well you have 2 choices
he has this "social power" that might mess you up so then consider it but if you think i can live with that just go a head and say "NO"

see you can get away with something like this if you do it in public where your friends are round just say
"i have told you i don't want to jack you off" that might work for you i don't know what the others might think but i have done this once but it's kind of mean your choice1!:) good luck!

[blingibong]

You have three options.

A. Give in. Whack off with him. But, if you do it this time, he will most likely want more and more.

B. Very firmly say no and tell him to stop asking immediately or there will be severe consequences.

C. The sever consequence. Charge him with sexual harassment.

no offence dude but C... going a bit too far yes that should be the last thing in your mind.. that can really mess your life up.... pls before you do something like that consider some 100 things else!!! going to court over this is the worste thing you can do!!

[MykeSoBe]

Well tell him that if he turns people against you, then you'll spread rumors that he was begging to jack off with you.

[antimonic]

I say do it but wash your hands before with some of the hottest chilli seeds you can find.

I doubt he would return after that.

[Sugaree]

You can do one of three things:

1. Tell him very firmly "No" and tell him to jack off by himself.

2. If he keep at it, tell him that if he doesn't stop, that there WILL be severe consequences.

3. If he has stopped listening, call the police and have him charged with sexual harrassment.

I hope this works. Best of luck to you.

[clear paint]

hes got leverage? ever seen the family guy episode where chris is popular and all the jocks are like "lets make the nerds whos us there penises!!" "yeah thats so gay of them" (im just quoting it) isnt him asking you constantly to jo with you leverage enough to make you the alpha? just text everyone that he wont stop asking you to jo with him

[FalconSmash]

Guys, this isn't sexual harrassment. He has in no way forced the OP to do anything he didn't want. I hate when people speak things and don't understand them.

Realy, I'd just take it as a compliment, bite the bullet, and do it. I'd you graduated, then you're going to college, where he can't follow you. So give him what he wants, and leave for college.

And yeah, the pepper thing made me lol.

[kyle95]

are you nuts mate? it's no different from harassing a girl into sex. 'social power' is a double-edged sword. i doubt he'll have much clout if you relate this to all his friends. tell that degenerate to get his jollies elsewhere

[FalconSmash]

are you nuts mate? it's no different from harassing a girl into sex. 'social power' is a double-edged sword. i doubt he'll have much clout if you relate this to all his friends. tell that degenerate to get his jollies elsewhere

But it is much different. He hasn't touched the OP against his wishes, he hasn't threatened him beyond some stupid social status, and he hasn't forced himself on the OP. He hasn't mentally hurt the OP in any way, so there's no case for harrassment.

And if he could get his 'jollies' elsewhere, he wouldn't be asking OP.

[Skeln]

Forst of all if you graduated from high school then I'm not sure if you're 18 yet and if he's not. If that's the case then you shouldn't even consider the possibility of wanking with him becasue it's statatory rape. And it is sexual harassment. Do you know the meaning of harassment? It's basically when they bug and bug on you for no true purpose and sexual harassment is when it's harassment but with sexual stuff which is I think more severe.

[Noah_101]

tell him you are not interested and you wont change your mind

[raymond]

If he wants to whack off with you, and you think he is attractive-nice body etc... then give it a try if it is your first time. You can try it like I did once with a guy last year. [No stories thanks. Chequ3r]

[Zazu]

Please don't bump old threads.

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