thought she liked me

[Sportz]

Well this girl i liked broke up with her bf after seven months so i asked her out and she said that she was still getting over him. So we hung out together a few times in the next week or two and i was going to ask her out cuz her friend said that she liked me alot and that she was over her ex. then out of the blue some guy asked her out and she said yes. and she knew i liked her and her friend told me she liked me too. and i cant get over her...advice??

[tbboltz92]

Don't worry about it that's life. She may have liked you too but she might of liked the other guy more.I doubt that it has anything to do with you as a person.


People in their teen years are driven by hormones not deep feelings, so she's most likely dateing this guy based on hormones and visversa.


i hope this helps someone else may be more helpful

[Blue63]

Well if it truly was out of the blue, maybe it wont last long with this other guy. Then you may have another shot.

If you really can't get over her, you may want to try and talk to her, maybe a little discreet at first, talk about her and her boyfriend. Then maybe bring yourself in the conversation, "If I would have asked you out first would you have said yes?" Then kind of go from there, just try and not sound clingy.

[Sportz]

Well if it truly was out of the blue, maybe it wont last long with this other guy. Then you may have another shot.

If you really can't get over her, you may want to try and talk to her, maybe a little discreet at first, talk about her and her boyfriend. Then maybe bring yourself in the conversation, "If I would have asked you out first would you have said yes?" Then kind of go from there, just try and not sound clingy.

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ok thx i think ill try that

[Aves]

I agree with Blue, that's what I would do if I was in this situation.

[kyle95]

u don't have any rights over her mate, she's ur friend. give her space and don't concern urself with who she may date. just b there to offer her ur support.

[Sportz]

u don't have any rights over her mate, she's ur friend. give her space and don't concern urself with who she may date. just b there to offer her ur support.

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i know i dont have any rights over her.....i was just a little upset cuz she pretty much used me as a rebound i think....i found someone else though :)

[kyle95]

well done mate, it sounds like u also had a rebound :)