Confused a bit.

[Aves]

It seems that girls like guys who treat them like crap. (I know cliche right). Anyway, I'm a nice guy, who is only jokingly mean, and I make it obvious I'm joking. Why do girls fall for the jackasses who will just treat them like an accessory, instead of a nice guy like me?

[Sapphire]

Not all girls go for the bad guy all the time, you know.
Please give us some credit.

Anyway, the "bad" guys tend to have some mystery and a sense of excitement. They can also be a way of rebelling.

[Blue63]

As a fellow nice guy, I think it just depends on the girl. It may take some a few tries before they realize they actually like the nice guy, it may take others just 1 try. I don't think all girls like to be treated horribly, most tend to go for the nice guy after a while. Just be patient, open your heart, and put yourself out there.

Also, I think the girls that go out with the guys who treat them like crap, well I'm pretty sure those relationships don't last long as the nice guy relationship.

In the end, I think it depends on the girl

[Aves]

Thanks.

Oh, and Sapphire I wasn't trying to be stereotypical, it's just a lot of the girls at my high school like the bad guys who do drugs, and treat them like crap.

[Sapphire]

Don't worry, I didn't take it badly.

They're like that because they are young. They are probably wanting to rebel against parents/school/society and looking for someone with a sense of danger about them.

[Aves]

This helps, and I hope being the nice guy works out for me, even if it's not till the future.

[kyle95]

bcse mate these r not normal girls. the girls who fall for abusive apes come from an abusive home, have low self esteem, and are crying 4 attention. those girls need help, not another jerk to hurt them. continue being nice 2 them mate

[Aves]

Thanks Kyle (if that is you're name! Lol)

[tbboltz92]

Just remeber that in the end the good guy always wins.

so if at first you don't suceed try an try again. Besides these girls that fall 4 bad boys are bitches and probly just as bad themselves(speaking from personal expirence)

[Sapphire]

Besides these girls that fall 4 bad boys are bitches and probly just as bad themselves(speaking from personal expirence)
I appreciate that you are speaking from experience but you can't generalise like that! It's very unfair.

[AutumnDae]

I've seen it happens tons of times. The nice girls fall for the "bad" boys. It happened with my mom and my dad (My dad looked the part, didn't play it though. :P) my friend, my sister, myself once or twice.

I myself can say that I'm attracted to "bad boys" There's a sense of excitement. The call that never comes when expected, anything. But I can also say that I'm attracted to the good guys as well. I dunno. It's hard to say.

From personal experience, the good guys are always better boyfriends than the bad guys.

[znklotzy.]

i hate that! im not 'popular' but girls like me but still its gay its like they are always digging on dicks who treat em badddd >:0

[rubidoux]

A lot of guys who call themselves "nice guys" are too much like our girlfriends. We don't want to date our girlfriends, we want to date a man. It's good to be nice to a point, but a lot of "nice guys" take it too far and are basically doormats. Girls want a guy they feel protected and safe with. It's like a subconscious instinct.

[ylllek nivyer]

i know exactly what your talkin bout. i'm not one of those girls tho. but i used to be. it gets on my nerves when i see my friends being stupid and dating jackass dudes :( but i don't feel sorry for them, cuz its all there fault, because they stay with them! wtf. but i totally agree with you, man. it don't make sense.

[kyle95]

A lot of guys who call themselves "nice guys" are too much like our girlfriends. We don't want to date our girlfriends, we want to date a man. It's good to be nice to a point, but a lot of "nice guys" take it too far and are basically doormats. Girls want a guy they feel protected and safe with. It's like a subconscious instinct.

very good point. when im with my gf, i have a short fuse with anyone pissing me off or making a rude comment. i never back down from a good fight, so ya, she feels protected and to some blokes, im the bad chap - im not but the reputation precedes me. obviously i dont think im right either, because one day i may be on the receiving end of a blade or a bullet. in a way, being bad is not being grown up at all, its really being silly and stupid.

[Aves]

k thanks all.

Also I would protect a girl, and would take a bullet for them even.

[ylllek nivyer]

aw :) that's sweet.

[CestDan]

Well, first, I don't think "all" girls like that kind of guy, I mean, perhaps some of them do it but not every girl. Now, sometimes not only do girls but also guys do everything for love. Let's imagine it: You really fall in love with someone who is really pretty and well, you are crazy for her/him, then you become being his/her bf or gf. You are really happy, you don't noticed any mistake in your partner. Though many people tell you, you just don't believe them. That's what happens with this kind of girls.

Now, it sounds like you are angry cause that. Don't worry, everyone has someone to love and to be loved. Your perfect partner will come to you herself.

[Silverfist64]

Now, just theoretically speaking, I believe that one of the main reasons most girls fall for the jackass' is because they know deep in themselves that they will end up with the "nice guy" in the end when it truly matters. But seriously, who wants to date the same exact people your whole life. Guys tend to date a wide variety of girls and its like its wrong for girls to do the same. Girls want to experience it for themselves, they want to know what its like. Sure, sometimes it lands them infront of an incoming punch from an abusive boyfriend or something, but people [usually] learn from their mistakes. Just be patient dude. Soon, all the girls will be coming after you....give or take a few years...;)

[Aves]

^^ Thanks, I'm hoping it's sooner than later that they come for me.

[Natoja12]

i like guys like you, that are mean but just joking. Most of the ppl where i live r like that too. it might just be the croud ur in.