A Slut?

[JamesMan]

My Girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago, and the reason was (I think) that I wouldn't let her give me a BJ in school. We had already done things at home. But she really wanted to do it in school for some reason.

What do you think?

:)

[nick]

You were quite right in my opinion not to let her do that at school, I mean where would you have gone for privacy, you wouldn't want to risk being caught in the girls toilets or anything, it would be a really stupid thing to do.

I wouldnt go as far as to say it makes her a slut, thats not a very nice term to use about anyone, but if she's that irresponsible you're better off without her.

[Θάνατος]

Well the request is quite erotic if you ask me.

Some people just like to have sex in weird places. I agree school is not the best and most appropriate place for a b/j.

So is this the only reason she broke up with you?

If so she is very shallow and you are better off without her.

[Bougainvillea]

She broke up with you because you refused to let her put your penis in her mouth?

That's childish. She should respect your decisions. If you don't want to, then you don't want to.

[JamesMan]

Yea ok, Thanks guys.

[Sapphire]

the reason was (I think) that I wouldn't let her give me a BJ in school.
I think that you have a ridiculously low opinion of her and are out of line to reach such a conclusion over the reason for your break up.

It's a damn good thing you two aren't together anymore if you think she would dump you over this!

[Bougainvillea]

I think that you have a ridiculously low opinion of her and are out of line to reach such a conclusion over the reason for your break up.

It's a damn good thing you two aren't together anymore if you think she would dump you over this!

That too.
I guess

[antimonic]

My Girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago, and the reason was (I think) that I wouldn't let her give me a BJ in school. We had already done things at home. But she really wanted to do it in school for some reason.

Are we talking a blowjob in the school toilets or like in the middle of the playground?

[Aves]

That's kinda weird, but not a slut, more just a horny bitch. She's not worth it trust me.

[kyle95]

mate, i agree with justnick. no need 2 label her. it certainly is a fickle thing 2 break up over. she should respect ur wishes 4 not wanting 2 do it in public, esp at school mate!

[tbboltz92]

I think that you have a ridiculously low opinion of her and are out of line to reach such a conclusion over the reason for your break up.

It's a damn good thing you two aren't together anymore if you think she would dump you over this!

that's not that outragous I belive that that could be a valid reason and i don't really think you need to be knocking the guy down like that it's not his fault she left. And it could be sour grapes, anyway

My bf broke up wit me b/c i didnt show affection at school i know this b/c he told me

so his thoughts arnt the out of the blue

[Sapphire]

that's not that outragous I belive that that could be a valid reason and i don't really think you need to be knocking the guy down like that it's not his fault she left. And it could be sour grapes, anyway

My bf broke up wit me b/c i didnt show affection at school i know this b/c he told me

so his thoughts arnt the out of the blue
Everyone needs their partner to show affection so that is very different to this.

I shouldn't be knocking him down? What so I'm supposed to be like "Yeah, of course you can call her a slut and second guess her motives for dumping you" just to avoid offending him? No thank you.

[sebbie]

Well, if you do not want to do anything sexually eg. a BJ then you should not feel pressured to do so. If this was causing friction between you, then you did the right thing to break up with her, relationships are all about respect for each others wishes and trust.

Now as for you saying you only think the reason is because you said no, ask yourself the following questions.
Have you had any other relationship problems?
Were you both fine with each other before the school incident?
How long after the incident was it before you split up?

Try and work it through in your head and you might find an underlying reason for the breakdown in your relationship.

[Number02]

She's not necessairly a slut.. Perhaps just... very easily offended that you won't do anything in school? I can understand she's frustrated, but I can understand why you won't do anything either.. TBH I don't think that would be the sole reason..

[AllThatIsLeft]

Have you considered that perhaps that was not the only reason? and perhaps coincidental.
From what I see, you are not putting much thought into it, and labeled this thread "A slut?"

so, tell me could there have been other reasons to a break-up?

[MyNameIsJack]

I agree with Paula, maybe there are some other reasons.

:\ Look at this:
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?p=565910#post565910

[Spook]

If someone tries to persuade you to do something you don't want to, you should never do it. If she broke up with you, then she isn't worth being with. If it is that way, she only bases the relationship on pleasure. If she wanted to do that in school, she might have wanted someone to see her, and be jealous, or see her in a certain way (a guy maybe?), and show them that she was with you, and was willing to do things for you. Hope that wasn't too hard to understand.) So good luck, and I know you can find someone worthy of your care. Good luck! ~Caitlin :yeah:

[ShatteredWings]

Please don't bump threads more than 2 months old

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