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thedudeman
July 11th, 2009, 11:04 PM
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Sceneboy612
July 11th, 2009, 11:10 PM
Well just to let you know, you are deffentally not alone. Sexuality is a hard issue for some people to discover. From what you said, i think that you are bi-curious. And what i mean by that is you want to try stuff, but you are feeling too ashamed of yourself to try anything out. I had a period of about 6 months trying to find out what i really was, and 4 months of that i was depressed lying to myself to make everything better.

But whatever you are... Dont hate yourself for it, and dont be ashamed for it, you are who you are.

If you need to talk to anyone you can PM me, and i will try to help you out :)
thedudeman
July 11th, 2009, 11:18 PM
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Sceneboy612
July 11th, 2009, 11:22 PM
I think that you are really straight, but your hormones are so strong that you prefer girls... but will settle for something as long as it is pleasing basically. You will find out that your raging hormones will go away soon enough, and when they do, you will know what you really are


And sorry about double posting... my computer was being slow

(no worries. :) Deleted the double just to make things cleaner, though. Carry on.) ~Kaleidoscope Eyes
thedudeman
July 11th, 2009, 11:28 PM
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kyle95
July 12th, 2009, 12:25 AM
ur not confused mate, ur in denial. ur gay, embrace it and move on.
thedudeman
July 12th, 2009, 12:28 AM
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Neverender
July 12th, 2009, 12:45 AM
HORMONES.

That is what causes the feelings for boys. The feelings will go down as your body gets used to hormones.

Kyle, learn what your talking about before giving advice.
thedudeman
July 12th, 2009, 12:50 AM
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Neverender
July 12th, 2009, 01:46 AM
could you elaborate on this a bit more?
would be much appreciated, im on the verge of a panic attack atm, unrelated
but wud help to know what your talkin abt, stability is always much appreciated

Testosterone causes you to like boys. Chemistry of the brain. And i'm Not going to go into Anatomy of the Brain and how its affected..
YourFriend
July 12th, 2009, 01:52 AM
ur not confused mate, ur in denial. ur gay, embrace it and move on.

You're wrong, he is probebly just confused and curious, maybe bi.
orangecounty
July 12th, 2009, 02:49 AM
Don't worry about labels...especially during puberty. Just do what feels right to you.