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benjabubble
July 11th, 2009, 10:43 AM
I'm not really sure where to put this...

Anyways, I'm a 15 year old American boy, and i jack off and all and am fine with that, but I've also begun to get almost addicted to porn, and I reeeeeally don't want to be. I want to stop, but every time I try I always go back again. Has anyone else ever tried to stop and succeeded, if so, are there any tricks that you used to stop?

Any help would be greatly appreciated, cause I'm not happy with the way things are going at the moment.

Thanks.

Ben.

Sir Collins
July 11th, 2009, 10:56 AM
if your on a laptop move to your family social area to be googleing and ect....so that u cant have the urge to click to a site, or if you can be bothered move the PC

Donkey
July 11th, 2009, 11:15 AM
Leave computer component cables that make it work around the house so you can't go on your computer at the times you wish to masturbate like night.

If you do during the day, block all porn sites you use from your computer (if you wanna know how, pm me). Or delete all the porn from your hard drive.

Cloud
July 11th, 2009, 11:17 AM
that lil red 'X' in the top right corner works a treat ;)
or you could enable parental controls or some similar crap

benjabubble
July 11th, 2009, 11:28 AM
I've tried the parental controls, but they don't work, cause its my computer and I know all the passwords...so in my "moments of weakness" I will just override the parental controls.

aquaman246
July 11th, 2009, 01:41 PM
Just like me, after a while i got bored of porn and wanted some real action, so now im not really that into porn. BTW porn is nothing like the real thing

tbboltz92
July 11th, 2009, 02:08 PM
Set some restrictions on ur browser so it's impossible to see porn after awhile ur need for porn will go away (hopefully)

If that doesnt work take a cold shower b4 u get on the computer

YourFriend
July 11th, 2009, 04:16 PM
Hah. I used to watch porn all the time...Over time it wore off. So don't really have any advice.

Neverender
July 11th, 2009, 05:09 PM
Porn is like a vacuum. It sucks you in and you need more and more to get you off.

Just keep away from the computer for a few days.

The Pretender
July 11th, 2009, 09:29 PM
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kyle95
July 11th, 2009, 09:59 PM
ben, identifying a problem is part of the solution. i suppose the best solution is 2 find a gf and learn to love and respect her. you'll soon see the degrading and impersonal nature of porn and would do anything to distance urself and ur relationship with ur new love from that. i dont watch that stuff and quite honestly i cant. mum was smart enuf to place blocks on the net. i have an amazing gf and i wont ruin our relationship by looking at porn.

on the other hand, there as some chaps who can deal with porn and it won't effect them, so i must respect that too bcse it's their rite 2 watch whatever they wish and i dont think its proper for any1 2 dictate what they can and cant watch. there are even couples that like it.

peaceloverugby
July 11th, 2009, 10:11 PM
I've got a solution to the parental controls password problem: if you have someone you can trust (and I mean really TRUST), tell them about your problem and ask them to set the password and not tell you what it is.

thedudeman
July 11th, 2009, 11:37 PM
dude your 15 years old, not a big deal, jackin off a lot to porn is chill
but if you wanna wean yourself off do this
start watching softer core porn, until you can get turned on by just titties, then go look at google images, and go even softer there, eventually you should be able to stop
im a major porn fan, watch it a shitload, but i dont rlly need to, i stop a lot sometimes, but it helps me get in the mood when i feel like jackin off

peaceloverugby
July 11th, 2009, 11:42 PM
^not that I don't look at porn, but I wouldn't say it's "chill" because it's illegal. Just throwing that out there.

thedudeman
July 11th, 2009, 11:46 PM
^
your parents letting you have a sip of wine is illegal
your parent teaching you how to drive without a learners permit is illegal
going in a skatepark with a bmx bike is illegal

let him watch pornography, as long as its not to hardcore it wont do any damage, the only damage that can be done is desensitization, which generally happens after one good relationship with lotsa sex

peaceloverugby
July 11th, 2009, 11:47 PM
Well, not to flame or anything, but the first one's not illegal, at least not in missouri :P

thedudeman
July 11th, 2009, 11:49 PM
i was just makin a point that not every law needs to be followed

PuppetPrince
July 12th, 2009, 12:56 AM
get active or a hobby. start something that will keep you occupy. :3

DJthekid
July 21st, 2009, 06:43 PM
just find a hobby and participate and lots of activities it will get your mind off of it